Okay so in about a month I am moving out of the state and I have a boyfriend...we have only been going out for a month and 1/2. Should I just leave or should I break up with him. I really dont want to do long distance because I want to meet other guys and Im really not that interested in my bf anymore.
I need some advise please! <3
2007-05-26 09:58:13 · 25 answers · asked by Kinky! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have 2 choices, take him with you or leave him
2007-05-26 10:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I understand what you're going through. I did the long distance relationship thing, & you're right, it doesn't work. You get lonely, and you grow apart from each other because you don't see each other that often. Talking on the phone isn't the same as face to face. And unless you're in love with him I would suggest breaking up. Its not right for him to string you along & neither you him. If you stay together both of you will end up cheating on each other & that hurts both of you. Do the right thing & let him go so you can go. You'll meet someone new & probably better.
2007-05-26 10:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by marinegurl1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your answer right there in your comment! You aren't going out with him that long, you want to start a new life-can't blame you by the way!, and you aren't really interested in him anymor. What is to think about? Break it off with him, maybe you can have a great friendship, but move on and enjoy your new life! Good luck!
2007-05-26 10:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Worldtraveler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk with him and tell him the truth, that you dont like long distance relationship. Plus you have the right to get to know other guys but before you do that tell him how you feel and that your not interested in him no more... sounds harsh but at least your being honest about it.
2007-05-26 10:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by lovely girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship between you two is not working anyway break up and move on chances are he is ready to move on as well. In a month and a half after you move you will not even know why you were worried about this
2007-05-26 10:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by nerakian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely break up with him. Don't leave him hanging. That would be so mean. Just tell him the truth. He probably senses already that you are not really into him anymore anyways.
2007-05-26 10:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by boolissa2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 02:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just leave him hanging! that's so unfair! not to mention unkind! just tell him straight out you are moving and you don't want a long distance relationship and let that be the end of things. the sooner you do it the better though, the less time he has to become attached to you the easier it will be for both of you.
2007-05-26 10:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try a steamer trunk. You can fold him in half to close the lid.
You need to do the right thing. You need to tell him you are going, and you are breaking up with him.
God bless
2007-05-26 10:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a real woman and sneak out in the middle of the night without so much as a Dear John letter. Make him think you were abducted by aliens or possibly kidnapped by some sex predator.
You're just not that interested in him anymore. Do him and every guy a favor: become celibate.
2007-05-26 10:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Since you are no longer interested in him, and in all fairness to him, you should tell him exactly how you feel. But, you could still be friends with each other through the internet, mail etc..., if you so desire.
2007-05-26 10:03:19 · answer #11 · answered by AFRET73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋