If he doesn't call in a week should I still wait for him?

Question

We have been dating for a few months now and he has never not called whn he says he will. We both have kids, so there are days when we can't talk. I have tried calling, but he hasn't had his phone on. What should I do? Unfortunately, I really like the guy.

He's messing around with a married woman. That is the most disgusting thing I could ever deal with. Even if he did try to talk to me again, I wouldn't have anything to do with him...

Answer 1

Well...All I can say is that you shouldn't wait around for him to call if you already know its become a habit. Don't put you life on hold for a guy hun...especially since you have kids.

If you really like him...and its just lust. You should give it a couple weeks for him to call you. Just be patient. If you really love the guy, again...wait a couple weeks for him to call you and have a talk about how you're feeling neglected since he never calls you.

Most importantly, do not act desperate. If he isn't the right guy, then he doesn't deserve you or your kids. Remember, you really have to be careful with the men that you date now since you have your kids to consider.

Good luck. =)

Answer 2

if u have been dating for a few months he can't just stop calling u and u re through. he should explain to u in person that he doesn't want to continue. so in your case maybe his phone was stolen or broken or he is in a hospital or whatever. once my ex husband when he found out i was seeing a new man took my cell phone. and u know we all don't remember all those digits in those enormously big cell phone numbers so i had to call my operator and she gave me only first digits cos because of some security matters they re not allowed to give the whole number so i was sitting and just dialing at randome last 2 or 3 digits. took me half a day. and i didn't know the addres of him so i couldn't ask in info service. so i suggest just be patient, send him sms asking what happened and u re waiting fro his call and just relax. que sera sera

Answer 3

This sounds like ME LAST WEEK..My BF's phone supposedly broke, didnt call me for 3 days straight...I forgive easily so he apologizes I forgive..I want him over and gives me excuses all week...Saw him last and all that it seemed like, was that he wanted sex...Im no longer answering his phone calls...If a guy doesnt call, he should find some other means to contact you..go to your house even..THEY should be the ones making the effort (i think)...Don't do what I did and WAIT FOR HIM...NO ONE IS WORTH your precious time more than your kids...My kids keep me busy and I FIND things to keep busy with them constantly...If he REALLY likes you just as much..He'll come right back... :)

Answer 4

Just wait for that moment to come and then find out why. He could have a very valid reason for not calling right away. Let's hope he's okay.

Answer 5

not calling is communicating. It means I'm not that into you! Take that to the bank! Get a new boyfriend thats into you/ he'll be there cause a guy is on target with his squeeze. Don't hold on to the old guy cause thats a drag to him hes moved on, or he'll check in just for sex. Sad.

Answer 6

It sounds like he has moved on, and not had the grace to let you know how he feels.

I would let it go and, in the event that something has happened that has taken his time or ability to call, not pursue it or leave angry or emotional messages.

Answer 7

if he hasnt called u in a week and u have been trying to call him i would just wait

Answer 8

Try E-mail

Answer 9

I think he may have lost interest in you. Ask him to give you an answer, one way or the other.