Is it bad for a guy to think you're sexy? Because this guy that I have a crush on thinks I am sexy and really attractive. I don't want it to go anywhere yet, but he doesn't go to church anymore. What should I do, from a girls perspetive who is a Christian. All my friends at school who know him think that I should give him a chance, but I don't know. He knows that I'm not like most girls and if he doesn't I'll make sure he does before anything happens. I know that he would treat me well, and I know that he understands me. Ahhhhh!!! I don't know what to do. Can you help?
2007-05-26 07:36:50 · 7 answers · asked by hello! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Don't pass up chances.
2007-05-26 07:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If the person isn't a Christian then the Bible warns against dating him. It says, What fellowship does light have with darkness? and be not unequally yoked with unbelievers."
I don't think the term sexy belongs in the Christian vocabulary.
The Bible describes women as holy, of a meek and quiet spirit which is precious in the sight of God, and etc. Sexy is a worldly word having nothing to do with godliness at all.
If he is not going to church you might want to find out why. I am sure church didn't desert him, and maybe he has no interest in following the Lord. If that is the case and you intend
to follow the Lord then you need to let him know you're not interested.
Physical attraction or a "crush" is not a good reason to date anyone. Godly character in a man is what God seeks and it is what you should seek also.
2007-05-26 14:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you like him? Just b/c he doesn't go to church doesn't mean that he is a bad guy. He may have just not found that church that is right for him. You can invite him to yours, hang out with your church group. Be friends and get to know each other. Then, if you feel that he is right for you, give him a try. If not, then be flattered he liked you and politely let him down. Good luck!
2007-05-26 14:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously a Christian, and the Bible should be important to you!
The Bible says not to be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. It depends whether or not you intend to obey God's Word, or to give into your fleshly desires.
It's your choice!
2007-05-26 14:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are Christian ,I adise you to tell this guy that Christ is the most important one to you and you would like him to meet Christ. Invite him to Church with you.
2007-05-26 14:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by James O 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
to look a woman with lust is considered adultery(i think i saw this in the Bible). will you trust your love or give a chance to an adulterer.
2007-05-26 14:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jeniv the Brit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stay true to God and yourself. pray and ask God what you should do. i think you probably know deep down in your heart what the right thing is. hugs
2007-05-26 14:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋