In real life, my best friend is BI, & I'm heterosexual. But I had a nightmare that we haven't seen each other in a while, & she turned STRAIGHT lesbian because she got sick & tired of guys dogging over her. In real life, I take psych meds that make me sleepy, & in the nightmare, she took advantage of me while I was doped out sleep & turned me out. & then later on that night, I found myself at a Lesbian Banquet with baked potato with broccoli, cheese, & chili with nice, juicy T-Bone steak & cake, pie, & ice cream for dessert & wine-followed by a pool party with HOTT, sexy guys. Now in real life, I can't drink alcohol at all, but why was I drinking wine in my dream?
I was so scared I too afraid to go back to sleep, & now I feel psychologically bothered by this. I know this dream isn't my friend's fault, but this makes me mad enough to not want to be her friend or talk to her anymore. But I still will be her best friend & talk to her. I just won't let her turn me out. LOL I'm hetero.
2007-05-26 06:20:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
The sub-conscious takes things from your conscious mind and turns them into cryptic messages...they really can help you if you know how to decipher them. They never mean anything literally, so dont worry. Perhaps making you bi like her just meant you want to identify with her more? The "turning out" thing could just mean that she wants to feel closer to you (not physically, just closer emotionally, but the cryptic sign shows you a literal sign and you have to figure it out). As for drinking the alcohol, maybe there is a deep part of you somewhere that wished you *could* drink every now and then? Its really nothing...just your subconscious mind showing you things in cryptic form, like a puzzle. It's nothing serious.
2007-05-26 06:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have weird dreams. If this is a good friend, I am sure she would never take advantage of you. How long have you been on these medications? Sometimes when you first start taking them they give you very weird dreams. Other times after you have been on them a while and they lose the effectiveness you start having weird dreams.
I hate weird dreams, but they sure had good food at the Lesbian Banquet didn't they?
2007-05-26 06:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your dream and have a good laugh! I'm sure your friend isn't going to turn you out. It is just your subconscious trying on an idea you have thought about already. Don't worry. And about the alcohol, You can drink in your dreams, so do it in your dreams. Just not in reality. Now, get some sleep!
2007-05-26 06:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by magix151 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry too much about it. It is just a dream after all. We all have crazy dreams from time to time. If your friend knows that you are hetero, then she hopefully will continue to have enough respect not to make romantic advances. It would be a really sad thing if your friendship got messed up because of a dream.
2007-05-26 06:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by hokusman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no longer all targets or nightmares have a deep hidden message in them. it ought to easily be your fears popping out. it must be that there are issues on your existence which you will choose to locate further...or issues you have an interest in, yet you experience such as you will fail or locate out something approximately it that's no longer precise. (finding interior the domicile for brand spanking new rooms, and you detect out it extremely is not what you thought.) With the persons guffawing at you.....alongside with "failing" you think of people will decide you for feeling a definite way, or giving up. on the top the place she says you won't be able to flow away, you may experience that in the time of your diverse direction,you would be so deep in which you won't be able to turn back...or you have completed something which you won't be able to take back and you'd be judged. uncertain, it is in basic terms a great gamble.
2016-10-06 02:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by benisek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dream is a dream you have to forget and if you really like this girl as a friend respect her like one because friends don't come by often and you ahve to take the best of it
2007-05-26 06:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by MOMO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋