my moms side of the family is 100% german and my dads side is scotch english irish and polish. my family is very mixed in their poersonalities and views, and i feel i am screwed up in the head and am having severe psychological problems with this please give me your thoughts and opinions how do i know who i am and not feel messed up inside?
2007-05-26 06:01:11 · 11 answers · asked by jeremy5715150 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You just have to find your self... Most family's are screwed up. I am 40 years old and I am finding myself now. Put your believes together and what makes since to you and go from there. Don't let anyone decide who your going to be. Fro example. Some family's are deep believers in God and the other side claim the church is all about brainwashing... Just find what makes since...
2007-05-26 06:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Do you live right..
2 Are you hurting anyone..
3 Can you say that if you died now would you have regret,
4 Have you done all you can to help and be there for others..
5 Do you love yourself.
6 Are you happy with your life's decision.
7 Friend are like treasure are you rich
8 Being kind is the pay off.
9 love with all your heart and hope for the best...
10 (last) You make who you are.. Never blame anyone esle for the way you are, you are responsible for you and your actions...
Parents gave you life and did the best they could. As an adult you took over, change what you will to make it right if you feel it will better you as a person. smile it heals the soul.......
2007-05-26 06:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up with alchoholics and fights in the home and no stability. As a child, I wished I would die. Everyone has differant views and personalities but that should not effect you. Just live your life and have your own views and feelings.
2007-05-26 07:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All families have issues. Quit looking at your family trying to find out who you are. You define who you are as a person, your family are just the people that help you along the way.
2007-05-26 06:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is that plenty conflict and you have in basic terms been mutually a three hundred and sixty 5 days, it might desire to be smart to not pass. Gatherings are assume to exciting, relaxing, relaxing, etc... in the event that they have mutual emotions in the direction of you they probably do not prefer a night of drama whilst they're desirous to pass to with kin that they might not have a guess to pass to with plenty throughout the time of the three hundred and sixty 5 days. you could not tension somebody to settle for you. You the two get on properly or you do not. Confronting them might in basic terms tutor their ingredient. enable them to verify which you are the bigger individual by not putting up a fuss and permitting him to rejoice with a while together with his kin. once you're saying he would not upward push up for you, is that purely concerning his kin? One solid piece of advice never come between anyone and their kin. you will not win atleast not interior the tip because of the fact the guy will come to resent you. kin will consistently be there boyfriends/girlfriends and husbands/different halves come and pass yet kin is there till the tip. EDIT: Your wording leads me to think of your on your youth. Marriage isn't the element you may desire to be with regards to your self with. additionally his mothers and fathers may be extra accepting in case you have been an older couple. whether that's teen romance that's often packed with drama permit this pass you have your finished life earlier to you. rejoice with your very own kin for the trip journeys.
2016-10-08 04:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by aceta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my family. I'm Dutch/English/Scottish/French/Italian.
Forget those parts and accept yourself for who you are. Be true to your own personality. I don't know how old you are, but is there someone you could speak to? A counselor?
2007-05-26 06:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's world all families have many origins, and many personalities. So you are not unusual at all. Glory in all that makes you your own special person. Enjoy and love who you are. That is all that matters. Retain the traits that you love and toss those that you dont.
2007-05-26 06:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experiment things on your own and you will see what you like just spend time to yourself and you will find you. Try new restaurants, clothes, shoes, religions etc.
2007-05-26 06:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by luckyarborlane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are you! you are a small part of them you do not have to be like any of them just be your self, You have a mind of your own use it..
2007-05-26 06:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't worry about anyone else!
2007-05-26 06:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋