i have been playing hard to get for quite sometime now..and i think it may be working...cuz i havent had a date or a gf in like 5 years....and .......so....
well...anyways.......i think it might be working a lil too well...what do i do now??
2007-05-26 04:54:33 · 18 answers · asked by justin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what you want so go out and grasp it. so quit paying the role of "hard to get"!! there is a limit of how much it will keep "working for you" until you end up unhappy. i think you have passed that limit. but you can make things right!
2007-05-26 04:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know man but I usually play a "little hard to get" but after a while give it up, and go out, then after that person I start my cycle all over it usually works for me.
What the heck am I saying I haven't gotten a date yet, but have been asked several times.
I cant because I'm muslim, and I aint encouraging you to do it either, but if you are going to , don't be "too hard to get" cus thats just like trying to make a million dollars in less than a day, which some people see as impossible or something.
Just be yourself man dont control it let it control you.
Bye.
2007-05-26 04:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play hard to get, girls will lose interest. If you like someone go after them. Being a stand off-ish prude isn't going to get you anywhere, except alone.
2007-05-26 05:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion i hit upon taking section in confusing to get pretty infantile. in basic terms be your self self. some human beings do not take rejection properly in any respect and also you may want to lose the probability with a surprising guy. commence off as acquaintances & flow on from there.
2016-11-27 20:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm....... stop playin !!! if you are interested in dating... just do it, it doesnt hurt to go out for a good time... movies , dancing, etc doesnt mean you are committed to anyone... just means you are social are you looking for someone.... or do you enjoy the attention females gives you... and then you show no interest...
2007-05-26 05:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by sassy-baby'girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better quit playing hard to get.
2007-05-26 05:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man.. .didnt know guys do this too ! ;)
well, yea now that u are open minded to seeing people, just dive in... no use holding back, u mite come across as conceited or egotistical..
turn on ur charm, sexiness and good luck ! ;)
2007-05-26 05:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if there's someone you like then why not ask if they want to go out for a drink sometime?
2007-05-26 04:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by heart_x_surgery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls HATE it when guys play hard to get, girls need to feel secure and special and guys acting like they don't like us really doesn't help, just find a girl you like and make her feel like the most special girl in the world, it will totally work in your favor
2007-05-26 05:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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might stop playing "hard to get" before you start losing your hair and amassing a friggen belly!
2007-05-26 05:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by rare2findd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋