Thinks and wants to go to this concert with me, I have not even said yes to her going and she keeps assuming she is. It is in a few weeks and she has a boyfriend that doesn't want to go....and I really dont want her to go but dont want to be mean or rude. She still really likes me to, think her going is going to give her ideas to try something?
2007-05-26 04:52:04 · 13 answers · asked by Dingdingdong 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll need to be very direct and say it's not appropriate because she has a boyfriend and you wouldn't feel comfortable with it and out of respect for him, don't think it's a good idea that she come. You're sorry she misunderstood that she was invited but it's really something you're doing with your friends. It may hurt her feelings but that's tough. I'm assuming she's an ex for a reason, whether she broke it off or you did. Be sure to keep it that way and don't cross any lines.
2007-05-26 04:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has ideas about to try something, but maybe she's just using you to go to the concert. Her boyfriend doesn't want to go, but how does he feel about her going with you?
Sometimes you have to set boundaries that aren't popular. If she thinks you are rude, so what?
2007-05-26 11:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this sick bîtch wants to have her cake and eat it too. Tell her "Look, if you go to this concert with me, we're going as boyfriend and girlfriend. This means you must drop your old guy. Don't like it? Tough. Don't go. What do I care?"
She's your ex--you owe her nothing. Headbutt her in the boobs if you want.
(No I'm not serious with that last one, but it made me laugh so I had to type it.)
2007-05-26 11:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand this is gonna be extremely hard for you but here's what you have to do. end this thing early before it gets too bad. tell her you just want to be friends and you'd rather bring a DATE (which she is not) to the concert. she might ignore you or be upset for a little bit. try to remind her of her boyfriend. she'll be alright
good luck babe =]
2007-05-26 11:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like all she wants is a free ride and a free ticket to a concert. If I was you I'd tell her straight that she needs to pay her own way, I bet you she won't be able to pay and she'll be mad at you for asking.
2007-05-26 11:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yea, u are giving her ideas that u are still an option for her... Just say it on her face that u arent interested neither in the concert or her... Dont consider whether ur being rude or not... She's ur ex... Obviously u arent fond of her... So wat she thinks of ur reply doesnt matter..
2007-05-26 12:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the one who is being rude by inviting herself. Tell her the truth, you don't want her to go. That is not being rude or mean that is telling the truth.
2007-05-26 11:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like this girl any more than you need to tell her that you don't want to take her and that it would not look good going with you because she is seeing someone
2007-05-26 11:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzhead28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know
but wont her bf be upset
or is she using you to make him jealous
becareful you may end up in a messy web
if i were you i would decline
the invitation
2007-05-26 11:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're done with that so let it be. let her go byherself if her boyfriend dos'en't want to go . DRAMA YOU DON'T NEED
2007-05-26 11:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Druqk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋