if you caught your spouse having sex with another person, what would you do? I mean, you open the door, saw your spouse having sex with another person, what would you do at that moment. Would you leave that person forever?
2007-05-26 04:50:35 · 29 answers · asked by Angel Ling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would put an end to it. Both their screwing around and the marriage.
2007-05-26 04:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would probably go berserk screaming and crying and I can't say what else...I'm not a violent person by any stretch, but I think I would not know which end was up! And, yes, I would leave that person forever...I believe loyalty and support are the most important things in the world, and I could never accept betrayal of any kind. I know this is my character, and even if he wanted to work it out, the spell would be broken and I wouldn't bother going back. If I know someone has wronged me, that's the end...there are plenty of people out there who wouldn't care about hurting you, those you've allowed a special place in your life should NEVER be given an opportunity back once they've shown they don't deserve it.
2007-05-26 12:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be so hasty I will wait til they finish and then I would ask my spouse how is he feeling? He is at his weakest moment so I will take the full advantage of the situation and pack his bag and give him a great send off. I will call the locksmith and change the locks. Just for the fun I will ensure that his female friend leaves the house leaving her pantie and bra as a memento.
2007-05-26 12:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would have a hard time not throwing something at him. Really. But after that, I would take the dog, go to the bank and withdraw as much money as possible before he can do the same knowing that I know, and then go stay with a friend or relative unitl I decided what to do (leave him, try to work it out with counseling, etc) depending on his reaction. I think marriage is forever, so you figure it out.
2007-05-26 11:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First that person would get out. I would not leave my own home. Then I'd deal with my spouse. Yes, I would file for divorce. I don't believe a person will cheat just once.
2007-05-26 11:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one as I have not experienced such a horrible sight. I would probably start swearing and throwing anything I could find at them. BUT who knows maybe I would be totally stunned and not do anything - however I have a fiery Latin temper so I think someone would probably get hurt physically. Then, yes, I would leave that person forever.
2007-05-26 11:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by luvslugg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question. I can't say what I would do in a situation like that. But knowing myself as well as I do, I'd have to say that someone is coming out of the situation with bruises. I really do think that I would react violently, and then I'd probably throw up. As for working it out after wards, I don't know. I can't really see my husband cheating on me though, simply because we have a very strong sexual relationship, and I think maybe a lot of people cheat because they are not fulfilled in the relationship that they're in.
2007-05-26 11:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my spouse did it once there is a possibility he could do it again so i would choose to leave them forever
2007-05-26 12:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll totally leave that person forever after seeing him with somone else and their having sex, call me old fashion but in the world of love, not that i'm such a genius about it, but in the world of love cheating is strickly not acceptable.
2007-05-26 11:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by emmruz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you're spamming. Weddings, Friends and General: Family sections are probably not the best places for this question to begin with. If you are seeking advice or simply want the input, post it and wait for responses before you try again. I suggest 'marriage and divorce' for better answers.
2007-05-26 11:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the illogical me would grab a knife and disfigure the lady, cut off the men's dick... I would also use a lighter to burn the lady's face and body... Not to forget put the dick into a blender and blend into pulp.
file for divorce and leave them totally scarred for life...
2007-05-26 12:41:07 · answer #11 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋