just take her every 30 minutes or so and give her a treat for doing so and a reward when she does
2007-05-26 04:41:27
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answered by Anonymous
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OK, so I have been reading the other answers and I think they are all good except for the 10 day thing. Get real!
I have a 2 year old myself, he will be 3 in July, and we were having some issues with potty training with him. It was a bit unnerving, because his 2 older brothers were potty trained by 1&1/2. They do have a different father and genetics does play a part in it too. Daddy of my youngest was 4 when he was finally trained according to his mother. I understand now though, that you must work at the pace they set, with a little push.
This is what we do, and my suggestion too:
We ask him on a regular basis, if he has to go, firstly, most times he says " not yet" or just " no". There is the odd occasion that he says ok though. As of yet we usually only get #1, only 2 times now for #2 on the potty. He has regular times to sit on the potty too, first thing in the morning and last thing before bed. Sometimes he goes, sometimes not. We make a huge deal out of it and tell him what a big boy he is, and clap and "hooray" and all. We do not give him a treat, the attention is best. We also announce to him when we have to go, and don't hesitate to let him into the bathroom either. How else is he to know how it's done without an example.
Funny thing is, when he comes in, and hears me tinkle, he claps for me and tells me I'm, a big girl. Lol, isn't that just cute?
You can't push the issue, because then it becomes a chore, or a punishment. Let her take her time, but definately ask on a regular basis. Also, you should try to set some regular times for sitting, after meals is a good time for pooping, my pediatrician told me that there is a regular reaction from eating that triggers the bowels and anus.
Personally, once my son is comfortable with one regular time to sit, we give it a few days and introduce another time. Remember, even if they don't go when sitting there, you still want them to know that they are doing a good job of trying, and follow the signals as to when to get off too. Try to read or sing when sitting, this does wonders for giving the bladder time to relax.
I hope this helps you, I know that it is difficult, but the realization of you being proud of her for trying or succeeding is reward, and encouragement to do so again.
2007-05-26 09:21:21
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answered by goddessin 2
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i read all the answers and am putting some together.
1st... don't stress about it too much, nobody grows up and never gets potty trained...she'll do it even if it's on her own time.
2nd... i think it's a good idea to go to cloth undies...that way if they have an accident they get wet, and it's uncomfortable. there'll be laundry and cleaning for you, but just chill, don't get onto her, it's just gonna take time.
3rd... i don't like the whole, give them candy thing, just make a little fuss over her when she does it, and when she has an accident don't act like anything, don't even talk...that way she gets no feedback at all when she does it wrong, and when she does it right she gets positive feedback.
remember though, nobody ever doesn't get potty trained so if she's not ready just wait, who cares what other people think about it.
2007-05-26 05:05:05
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answered by Anonymous
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If she became potty guidance nicely before the infant cousin regarded you may in basic terms await her to enhance an interest returned. My son had a similar undertaking while his infant brother arrived. suddenly the infant became getting a great sort of interest and he reverted to desirous to be a sprint one by way of fact he wanted that particular same interest. Reassure her which you adore her, massive female or infant. in case you may arise with the money for it, and she or he reacts nicely, tell her which you will provide her something particular while she is all potty-experienced (like a clean sheet set for her mattress in her well-liked character or a series of underclothes or an outfit that she loves). Take a photograph of regardless of it is you will provide her and make valuable she would be able to ascertain it on a daily basis. you ought to even positioned a "action picture star chart" interior the bathing room to show while she is going interior the potty. valuable reinforcement is often the terrific answer, on no account push her to apply the potty. with the help of how, a buddy of mine informed me the thank you to potty prepare that became out to be a lifesaver for me. Spend one finished day potty guidance. provide her a great sort of juice, water, sparkling fluids, popsicles, etc and crackers. The crackers will make her thirsty and if she beverages sufficient she'll could desire to flow. Then spend the day examining, telling thoughts, taking part in video games, all jointly as sitting on the potty. while she ultimately gets the dangle of "tee tee" interior the potty, she would be able to experience so particular from each and all of the attention that she'll choose to do it each and all of the time. it may take an afternoon or 2 of this "severe" guidance, even if it worked for me.
2016-10-06 02:13:51
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answered by ? 4
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encourage her, make a big deal when she uses the potty. Take her to get some big girl underwear and let her know when she learns to go potty she'll be able to wear them. If shes not telling you she needs to go, ask her.
2007-05-26 04:43:49
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answered by Vanessa B 4
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I think this is one of the only times that bribery is okay. Get a bag of her favorite candy, giver a piece every time she goes.
I did this with my son, and no, he dosent expect a piece of candy when he goes potty now, lol.
2007-05-26 04:44:53
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answered by Anonymous
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just constantly ask her if she needs to potty maybe she doesn't know that she needs to tell anyone yet. Or even every time you have to go you announce it to her so she gets the hint
2007-05-26 04:43:43
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answered by mommy092107 3
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throw away all diapers and pullups, buy underwear, a lot of laundry for 2-3 days but by day 10 you will be done
2007-05-26 04:45:24
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answered by melissa s 6
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take her into the bathroom and showher ur self if shes mommy doing she might want to be like mommy and do it to and the use the reward system as well just show her how first
2007-05-26 04:45:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Well first reward her using candy after she gets use to it just start saying "good job"ect. I hope my advice works. Have a great day!!!
2007-05-26 04:42:59
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answered by Megan B 2
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