ok last night i was at my mom's bf's house when aboutfour to five adults start exstensively arguing mind you there are at least seven kids in the house aging from two years old to nine they (the kids) hate to hear the fighting and hell i don't blame them so i 15 go in to check on the kids and they are begging me to make it stop (all of those kids have endured enough in their life) so i go out and start yelling at the top of my lungs "get the **** out of the house with that **** there are kids in here and they are freaking out in there do you not care about the kids i don't care if the dorr is closed they all can still here you Erica is in there screaming and crying (she is 2) get out!" so then one of then tries to get in my face and tell me i have no say in it b/c i didn't live there so i cam back well i know i don't live here but god damnit there are kids in here so shut the hell up and take it out side. so you feel the same way i do or was i too sheltering about the kids.
2007-05-26 03:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by kmcintosh09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you had good intentions-but needed to reword them. In screaming and cursing, you added fuel and contributed to the problem. Next time, I'd suggest being calm and pointing out that they are scaring the children. They'll probably still treat you the same way, but it is a good habit to get into when you are an adult. Screaming and yelling get people nowhere! In my house, if you scream-there is a serious, life threatening emergency.
2007-05-26 04:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Adults should definately NEVER fght in front of their kids. They are being immature and like children whch isn't a good example to set for their kids. Also, the children will copy that behavior when they get married, and so on and so on. That's very tramatizing for the young ones too. It's not healthy.
2007-05-26 04:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this was a fight where they were swearing and accusing with a possibility of violence, then i think the adults were wrong. if this was just a heated argument with a difference of opinion and it got too loud, then, they should have the decency to tone it down and apologize. lots of adults argue in front of their kids but the key is to also let the kids see that the arguement can be resolved and the adults still love each other.
2007-05-26 03:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a big fat negative! Adults should never fight in front of children. You probably should have reacted more calmly towards the situation though, instead of adding fuel to the fire - even if you were in the right.
2007-05-26 04:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by *lostdownhere* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a Hoosier, yet i'm no longer particular there's a regulation that stops adults from struggling with in the front of minors. i might want to propose you contact the community kinfolk facilities organization on your city and be conscious in the experience that they could help you. -RKO-
2016-11-27 20:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-26 03:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by mustafa c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋