Example...
He finds out a girl likes him
She opens up a bit and he sees a way to manipulate her
They have sex then ....he no longer respects her....
Doesn't he realize what he did is pray on her?
2007-05-26 03:07:32 · 13 answers · asked by Single Gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not a man, men don't act like that. The "men" you are talking about are silly boys.
2007-05-26 03:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men that are predators.They tend to pick the weakest in the herd,and after a short study and talking to the victim.He knows where your head is at.....he got you....you give him sex quickly,like a slot machine....The trouble is that these women do not know themselves,have not taken the time to do things for me...so to speak.History of being dictated too. Always trying to please others....Wanting to be needed and used,we ask for it....And in that search for love and companionship,we make bad choices. First you must weight the benefits against the risk,put on a Chasity belt and watch men for a change,they also have the weakest one in the herd.....what type of man would you like,listen to his conversation and approach,he has a presentation. Women that move quickly do not hear a thing,but you tell him everything....pour your heart out with pass experiences what ever...When ones self worth,and dignity is undermined,a unjust.conceived resentment is generated...but no matter how just that resentment is....it is more self destructive to you than to anyone and causes a indignity on your part...Self respect,self-worth is done by you...you have to reflect how you feel about yourself. Wanting to rush into a relationship,tires your energy and breaks ones focus. Then you become weak and vulnerable,we put ourselves there then we blame him....
2007-05-26 11:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by God is love. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't say this is all men, but most men are just after the catch. If you play hard to get they keep trying and if it goes too far they may give up.. but if you be honest, normal and open they don't seem to appreciate that as much.
On the other hand, girls let this happen to them... they see a guy who acts towards them with a little disrespect and they (for reasons unknown to themselves) are drawn to only that guy.
Overall girls are much more loyal..
I don't think the guy realises what he is doing. It's just an initial attraction for him, and once that bowls over he has no emotion whatsoever.
why men do it?... because they just do!! y does any guy do anything bad??!!!.. or anyone for that matter... they may just not have a guilty conscience...
2007-05-26 10:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't she realize that she shouldn't have sex with a guy until she is absolutely sure that he has respect for her and proves through his actions that he is interested in her as a person and not a plaything?
He isn't going to respect anyone who lays down with her legs in the air too easily. How many other guys has she done that for?
Save the vulnerable crap, there is only one thing in this world that you and you alone own, that's your body, and before you share it with someone, you need to make sure that's not all he is interested in.
Yes, he was wrong for preying on her like that, but he only manipulated her because she let him.
GUYS ONLY GET AS FAR AS THE GIRLS WILL LET THEM GO.
2007-05-26 10:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment, I'm talkin to a girl online............she's very needy. I don't fancy her, but she fancies me. Now I could be a nonce and blow her off, tell out f*ckin straight that I don't fancy her, but I like chatting to her. She has great personality. So no, I don't treat women like crap, but I will treat an over the top attractive thinks she owns men type like crap. I eat her up, nonce she is. There, I said it.
2007-05-26 10:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they either don't think that they can get anywhere with a girl otherwise or an too lazy to try. and like most people when they think they are looking out for their best interests they don't always realize when they step on others. people suck, it's true
2007-05-26 10:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by asguard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are sick and cant get a girl of their own so they go manipulate a vunerable woman
2007-05-26 10:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what we call "sexual urge" natural in both sexes and even animals. like in man, his urge seeks to satisfy it and you can satisfy it. so, sex happened but no love. that is why, he does not respect you anymore. choose men who are temperate. be temperate too.
2007-05-26 10:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by snappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He realizes it.
She's the one without a clue.
Bottom line. You can only be a victim if you permit yourself to be.
2007-05-26 10:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and that's all that she was to him.....so either she needs to smarten up and really know someone before she gets intimate with him or she should be in it for just her pleasure.....moral ...know what you want and what you are willing to risk to get it
2007-05-26 10:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋