I really think I've lost it. I recently bumped into someone that I have been crazy in love with for years. I hadn't seen him for 2 years. Yesterday I saw him again and gave him my phone number and ever since I have just been a mess. I'm nervous, my stomach is all f*cked up, every once in awhile my pulse starts racing. I feel like I'm losing it. I want him to call me so so bad. I knew he wasn't going to call me last night, he told me he couldn't and it's only 9 in the morning here so of course he's not going to call this early but I'm freaked out that he's not going to call me at all. I'm sure this seems ridiculous, I am a grown woman. Is this comparably normal? Is there anyway to rid myself of this?
2007-05-26 03:02:47 · 5 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would you feel if someone you knew was this obsessed about you? It scares me just reading about it.
You basically have two options, the first one is behavioral. You treat this as if it were some sort of shock or loss. You maintain your routine, you try to sustain your emotional reserves because the other people in your life will need you tomorrow just like they did yesterday. You distract yourself by visiting someone in a hospital or nursing home. You focus on a current hobby or look for a new interest. You have no control over how he feels, and spectacular displays on your part will only drive him away.
Option B: See a therapist.
2007-05-26 03:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to get jittery but the ball's in his hands now. You've done what you needed to do by taking the initiative and if he doesn't call, move on. Don't put too much stock into a crazy love which you haven't been in a relationship with yet. Make sure he's a decent guy and don't give in to temptations.
Relax.
If he really is interested, he'll ring you.
Best of luck!
2007-05-26 10:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Zen Master D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out your vibrator, go for a run, take a cold shower, eat some toast, put on the TV, watch the Chelsea Flower show. Like just don't think about him
2007-05-26 10:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called a crush deal with it and take a xanax lol
2007-05-26 10:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by wonderboy n 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO ANYTHING to KEEP YOUR MIND BUSY.
GIVE HIM TIME!!!!!!!!!!
DON'T BE SO DESPIRATE.
2007-05-26 10:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Klingon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋