What is forgiveness ? Have you ever forgiven someone...?

Question

who really did you bad?

Or Have you ever wanted to be forgiven for what you ve done terribly wrong?

I did something wrong to my mom and ex girl friend.

I made them cry.It was long ago.

I still sometimes feel pain , and hate myself

I wish they really forgave me and forgot.

But I guess that they didnt or couldnt That why I FEEL HEARTACHE ,still .

Can I be forgiven?

Answer 1

Forgiveness is one of the hardest things we have to do in our lives. Because it involves forgiving another, or asking for forgiveness from another as well as forgiving yourself and letting it all go. It was a mistakes you did right? You did ask for forgiveness from God and from the ones who you hurt, ok now the next step would be yourself, have you forgiven yourself for what you did?
Was it something they did to you and what you did was a pay back? If that is what it was, then let me tell you the pay back may make you feel good at the time but afterward you realize it really wasn't worth the pain you put the others through.
Whatever the case is, start all over again, Ask God first for forgiveness, that would be the main one, and then ask your mom and your ex girl friend for forgiveness, and then forgive yourself and walk away. God will hear you, the others will be up to themselves rather they except it or not..And if they don't then walk away anyways and let God work on them. Don't carry it with you, the guilt you need to leave it with God, He will take care of it..and yes you can be forgiven.

Answer 2

forgiveness has rules... don't do it again...

depending on somethings some are unforgivable.. I would never forgive someone who's hurt my child... and being unforgiven I would take steps to keep them away... forgiveness is not what is going to heal the world it's a stupid concept... conscience is what regulates if we should be forgiven... if the offense is great the pain lingers as a warning...

The other side of having a conscience is when we hurt someone we feel their pain which encourages us to stop doing it and or make up for the pain we caused....

forgiveness under religion is a bogus word to prevent the religious from being held accountable..

other wise without knowing the offense... talking to your girl friend or mother could help you both heal... family is where forgiveness is strongest because in family love exists... and that is a contributing factor...

Answer 3

There is nothing on the face of this earth that cannot be forgiven. Now forgetting is the trick. I believe that if God can for give people for all the terrible things that they do on a daily basis who are we not to be able to forgive. First though you have to realize that you deserve to be forgiven, then apologize, ask for forgiveness and leave the rest to God. You can only do what is possible and leave the impossible to God.

Answer 4

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, here is what they have to say the word means:

Forgiveness is the mental, emotional and/or spiritual process of ceasing to feel resentment, indignation or anger against another person for a perceived offence, difference or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution[1].

You can look up the words here you would like more information on.

When you forgive a person you relate to that person with the view that they never have wronged you, the same way God looks at you when he saves you.

have to sign off for now. Hope this has helped.

Answer 5

Forgiveness is not saying that something you did was ok. Forgiveness recognizing and accepting that a wrong was committed and moving on from there.

You need to ask forgiveness from God because all wrongful acts harm God. Your ex-girlfriend and mom are children of God and when you harm them, you are disrespecting the one who created them. If you are Catholic, go to Confession. If not, then pray this prayer and MEAN IT:

O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee, and I detest all my sins, because I dread the loss of Heaven and the pains of Hell, but most of all because they offend Thee, my God, Who art all-good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of Thy grace to confess my sins,
to do penance and to amend my life. Amen.

Then go do some selfless charitable act that was the opposite of what you did to your ex girlfriend and mom. In addition, do something nice for them.

Then forgive yourself and go on with your life.

Answer 6

I am worn out of forgiving humans. For hurting me and looking to depict me in a bad mild so they are able to appear larger, for dishonest, mendacity and gambling video games. I desire karma could chunk them within the butt and exhibit them.

Answer 7

yes, you can be forgiven. first, be truly for your sins. ask God for forgiveness and make resolutions not to repeat them again and to make it up for these people you hurt. then try to ask for forgiveness once again, to your mom and ex girlfriend. show how truly sorry you are.

Answer 8

Sure God forgave every one read this example from Prophet Muhammad saying :


Narrated By Abu Huraira: I heard the Prophet saying, "If somebody commits a sin and then says, 'O my Lord! I have sinned, please forgive me!' and his Lord says, 'My slave has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for it, I therefore have FORGIVEN my slave (his sins).' Then he remains without committing any sin for a while and then again commits another sin and says, 'O my Lord, I have committed another sin, please forgive me,' and God says, 'My slave has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for it, I therefore have FORGIVEN my slave (his sin). Then he remains without Committing any another sin for a while and then commits another sin (for the third time) and says, 'O my Lord, I have committed another sin, please forgive me,' and God says,'My slave has known that he has a Lord Who forgives sins and punishes for it I therefore have FORGIVEN My slave (his sin), he can do whatever he likes."

Vol 9, Book 93. Oneness, Uniqueness Of Allah (Tawh....
Hadith 598. (Shahi Bukhari)


Just try one time to read about Islam

Answer 9

ask them for forgiveness and ask the Lord for forgiveness and then move on... that's all that matters. if they don't forgive then that's on them. not you as long as you really mean and are to never do it again. though forgiveness doesn't mean to forget...