I asked one of my friend's sister (who i was close with) if I could borrow her brother's shirt and so I did for a day and then I felt guilty so I gave it back to her the very next day. But then he found out and he's not talking to me but we weren't really talking to each other in the first place we'd talk once in a while(it's complicated he has a girlfriend) and I'm just afraid he won't talk to me again.
So what I'm asking is would you be freaked out if a girl you knew borrowed your shirt from your sister?
How bout if you liked her would you still be freaked out?
Would you still talk to her and how would you feel?
I regret and feel embrassed about this...
2007-05-26 00:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a guy but I felt like answering.
You do not really specify why you borrowed the shirt. Was it just to borrow it or did you need something to wear as you were sleeping over of something? ?:-) Anyways. If I were you, I would still go on as normal. When you go to his house and see him be natural and say hi like nothing happened. If he ignores you, I would be frank and ask him what's the matter, why is he not answering you. Do not mention the shirt thing let him bring it up if that is what it is. If it does tell him why. You cannot do anything but be honest in the end and see his reaction. Remember, guys cannot read our thoughts and we often appear complicated to them.
Good luck and take care.
2007-05-26 01:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt he likes you, its probably made him feel more uncomfortable more than anything. Its not complicated, he has a girlfriend. Im sure his girlfriend wants him even more after she hears the story of the weirdo girl. Girlfriends get weird when they hear stories like this. Anyway yeah, take it as one of those embrasssing life situations, IT HAPPENS. Trust me, ive been there, done things that made me look like an absolute idiot. Im in my 20s now, Im over it, but sometimes I think back and still shiver....
2007-05-26 08:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not freak out because some one borrowed something from me and if they did not return in i would ask for it back.you don't have to feel embrassed about this,maybe the sister did no say a thing to her brother about it so its not on you its on her.
2007-05-26 08:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by joe412004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time borrow my shirt from me.
2007-05-26 08:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Girish N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i am a guy and a girl borrowed my shirt and i don't like her, well i would definitely freak out and wouldn't talk to her anymore..
2007-05-26 08:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why you'd want his shirt. you can't borrow a guys' shirt unless you're dating him and ask him! it's not considered normal. just lay on the low for awhile and ignore him, act like it wasn't a big deal and if youre lucky he'll forget it
2007-05-26 08:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by beemariebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is an odd request to wear the guys shirt,especially if you are not really "talking" to each other. He has a girlfriend DUH! My advice is to find a more suitable hobby for a girl your age! good luck with that.
2007-05-26 08:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling why would you borrow "his" shirt..? Granted it isn't a big deal but why would you want to borrow it?
2007-05-26 08:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by ஐTInivelஐ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it was creepy and even if I did like the girl, I wouldn't not go anywhere near her after that.
2007-05-26 08:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problems...my shirts look better on women anyway.
2007-05-26 08:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by billgreenthumb69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋