coz, its like i feel so contented by just sleeping beside him and hugging him and caressin and kissin and smilin at eachother, i mean dont get me wrong, he makes me hot, but its just not on the top of my head, like i can last a night without it..
2007-05-25 22:34:16 · 16 answers · asked by aznprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you have is true love. What people don't understand is sex isn't everything, if you can have a great relationship first without adding the sex drama then thats great. Don't get me wrong sex is important, but the relationship should always come first!
2007-05-25 22:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by BluzGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you state that "he makes me hot" so obviously you are attracted to him, Why would you try to make "true love" dependant on some false idea that this means that you are continously horny for him? your a human being not some pleasure robot right? It sounds like you are very comfortable being with him. It sounds like your worried because you have more affection for him than attraction and maybe that is not how things usually go for you when you are "in love". It could be a problem for the relationship long term if sexual tension and attraction is completely absent. But for now maybe just enjoy that you have a relationship with more balance and hopefully more depth than just wanting to continously do it. So he doesnt turn you into a complete sex machine, is that what you were wanting . . . to just be a sex machine?
2007-05-26 06:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by scottc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love isn't just sex all of the time. It is enjoying each other, being contented with the things you described. But, you should also want sex, not necessarily every night, but with a comfortable frequency, as a way to express your love.
2007-05-26 05:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can be in love and not think about sex. Sex is only one expression of love. So is companionship, cuddling, and making out. Just remember, sex everyday is not so much a woman's things. We like all the build up to sex, whereas, guys just wanna F---K! You are very normal.
2007-05-26 05:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can still be true love even if you don't think about sex all the time. A person or two people do not have to think about or to have sex all the time to be in love.
2007-05-26 05:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is not love if you dont even have the slightest thinking about having sex with your partner. But it is also another important form of love to be responsible with your and his life, and postpone sex until both of you are married.
We human have feelings and logic, we should use both wisely to the better of people we love.
2007-05-26 05:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by seed of eternity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's true love! Sex does not determine how much you love a person, cause there are many more ways to show someone how much you love them.
2007-05-26 05:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex w/o love = one-night stand
love w/o sex ever = platonic
love w/ occasional sex = healthy
love w/ too much sex = healthier? not necessarily
You're okay!
2007-05-26 05:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah b\c to me Love is more then just sex. True Love is more spiritual then sexual.
2007-05-26 05:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope.
2007-05-26 06:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by syasya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋