Your bf and gf has a stable job and need help on getting a car to school and work. so Would you help your bf or gf get a car? How would you help, and what is your limit?
2007-05-25 21:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by judy06 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
We are in a serious relationship for almost 2 yrs, met his entire family as well.
2007-05-25 23:20:51 · update #1
Yah i would help. Work out an arrangement, perhaps something 50/50. Like he buys the car but you pay the insurance or something like that, Couples support one another.
2007-05-25 21:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by mistista07 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First look at the stableness of your relationship. Second see how much they need and help with whatever your comfortable with but make sure that if the relationship does not work out that you are not out allot of money work out an arrangement and talk about if the relationship were to end what would happen.
2007-05-25 21:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all would like to help our friends but in this case I 'd say no. You can't cos-sign unless you are legally of age to do so. If you do and he stops paying are you prepared to pay as you will be legally responsible for the payments by law. It can wind up hurting your credit etc down the line. Also be prepared to do what ever you plan on with a written agreement. Then should you ever have to go to court you have a leg to stand on. Without it, it is considered a gift and if you plan on collecting and he /she reneges you are stuck. You always need to protect yourself and that is what an adult does.
2007-05-26 03:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by renameme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by help? If you mean cosign for a car then i would say no. This can hinder you from getting the things you want and if they have problems it could hurt your credit. If you mean let them borrow some money then it depends on two things. Whether i can afford it and are they dependable enough to pay me back in a timely manner. Other than that base your decision on what you want to do. Do not feel obligated just because you are their friend.
2007-05-25 21:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by hashumor919 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't...I see court cases on TV like that all the time. I advise you not to. If you do make sure he pays it back. In a written contract. If you two break up and you want your money back you can sue him for it. If I had a car I'd take him to work and school every now and then but don't help him with one. Its just my opinion!
2007-05-25 21:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by powerpuffcutie24™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I helped my bf (fiance now) by cosigning for a car. I had it set up for the payments to come out of his acct automatically bc his bank was the same bank the loan was through. I haven't had any problems. If you want to help him and trust him enough to do so then by all means you should. Good luck
2007-05-26 08:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would help them by entering their name 100 times in a free raffle for a car. There's usually one at the mall.
2007-05-25 21:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Specs919 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id do whatever i could to help them --you know your limitations --you see someone in need you help them if you can and be done with it --
2007-05-25 21:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if i knew i loved them and was going to spend my life with them no doubt i would
2007-05-25 23:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by dodgers10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never. he is here to help me. if i need to help him i prefer to stay single
2007-05-25 21:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋