She broke up with him for another guy, and then we had a falling out. Her new boyfriend didn't like me, so she chose him over me, so i became best friends with her ex boyfriend. Is it wrong to start dating him, or even to like him?
2007-05-25 21:03:46 · 20 answers · asked by *oooBubblesooo* 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
As long as she's not ur current best friend, have at it!
2007-05-25 21:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by .:MELI:. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good for you to end that relationship but why did it take you so long to do so. First off give yourself some time go out and have fun. Your ex boyfriend friend has seen what you have gone through and feels that he can treat you better than your ex. I do not see anything wrong in dating him provided your completely over your ex..
2016-05-18 01:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if you have other things in common than your ex-friend liking this other guy better than either of you. But if you think your friendship can be salvaged if she dumps the current guy, and you think it's worth it, don't risk that by going out with the ex.
Nine times out of ten, a best girlfriend is worth more than a boyfriend. She may be the one in ten though, only you can decide.
2007-05-25 23:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess of Grammar 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No the thing that atracted you in the fist place is probably still there you will find yourself shifting to and fro with the intensity of feeling , but I supose youncan handle that any more intense and i think the reason why you broke up would again become evident . I'm sure you are mature enough to handle this but only you really know .
2007-05-26 00:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait it out a while longer. That's kinda dangerous territory. Since she chose her new boyfriend over you, she's probably not above using any ammunition to attack you with, and you dating her ex would be like her having access to a cannon to aim at you. Just hang out with the guy, be his friend, and don't exclude your other friends.
Good Luck!
2007-05-26 01:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Gina E 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think first you need to find out whether your best friend still likes the boy, and if she would return to him if she was given the chance.
It could cause a terrible situation between you both if she found you going out with her old boy-friend without having clarified the situation with her first.
Unfortunately there are girls who still feel very possessive about their old boy-friends and never get over feeling jealous where he`s concerned, even when theyare happy with someone else! Therefore they might make out they were still interested in him just in order that you don`t have him yourself!
If you suspect this to be the case I suggest you tread carefully, and with your new boy-friends collaboration, try to get your friend to accept that it is you who are his girl-friend now.
2007-05-26 00:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old you are.
If you are a young person or teen, it is wrong, also if you are not talking about a really serious relationship. Because boyfriends come and go. Also, because that is just the code.
If you are older and both looking for marriage or a serious relationship. That should come before friendship.
2007-05-25 21:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2017-02-20 06:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl no wrong in that, to like a person is good and he's free so if he likes you you may date with no problem. Relax and enjoy his company!
2007-05-25 21:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by marazul 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At least you both have one thing in common you are both her exes. Hope there is more to both of you getting together than that.
No it is not wrong. You feel what you feel. She has nothing more to do with this or either of you.
2007-05-26 04:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's wrong if you do it to get back at her. I can see complications even otherwise. Remember your relationship will always be marred by her. If you are ok with that, then go for it.
2007-05-25 22:38:44 · answer #11 · answered by Chamal P 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋