dead silence....need help?

Question

k so me and my bf will be talking on the phone and no matter wat there is always a lot of dead silence. I hate it. So in the past I have always phoned him, he never phones me. And then I always have to initiate the convo if it ever stops, and he is always always, doing something else while we are on the phone, ususally its the tv, other times its the computer and the odd times left out hes talking to his mom, step-dad, or sister, or brother, so heres my delema,
when I do actually initiate the convos he listens for a bout 1 sec, and if I dont we dont talk, God its driving me absolutly bonkers

Answer 1

if your young teens then its normal, they don't know what to say and they're always playing video games or computer games...or talking with someone who comes in.....
it sounds like you both don't have alot in common cuz if u stopped tlaking he has nothing to say to you. I would consider thinking about your relationshiip and perhaps moving forward to brighter things* having fun, living life, talking to each other about everything and anything , where you find the other interesting and they do with you* not with someone who has absolutely nothing to say*

best wishes*

Answer 2

Have you considered not phoning him? Some people are just not good on the phone; you actually have to be in the same room as them to keep their attention. Try email instead and remember, you're the one who wants to talk to him on the phone so this is your problem, not his.

Answer 3

Leave him alone.lol