i'm just wondering because i would rather have someone that i could love and be loved in return, but everyone says all guys care about is sex and not love. Does this make me different from other guys?
2007-05-25 17:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by kill that fat lard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*is it weird for guy not to be obsessed with sex?
2007-05-26 04:43:53 · update #1
by everyone i mean evry one i kno and the media
2007-06-02 07:24:46 · update #2
Not that much . . . I'm like that. I want sex too, but the love has to be there. Then again, maybe I'm different from a lot of other guys too. Or it could be that the ones that complain the most don't know how to choose the right men. Good night!
2007-05-25 17:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its weird for a guy to be obsessed with sex (depending on the level of obsession: meaning: some guys need help and others are just big perverts)
now thats a mistake not EVERYONE say all guys care about is sex because i know i dont and plus sometimes people just say that when they're pissed off about a guy or its a joke.
and of course ur different from other guys but that doesnt mean there arent some other guys who think the same way you do.
I know its amazing right girls? there's guy who actually give a **** (i know quite a few)
anyways no worries ur normal
unless you wanted to feel special..well then im sorry if i bursted ur bubble
2007-05-25 17:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by mylan-sama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it does make you different, but in a POSITIVE way! Obsession with sex isn't always just a guy thing either, many girls also find themselves taken with the subject. I myself am one of those girls, but I've never even had sex! I think that obsession is all a part of growing up. You find yourself infatuated with it. You are a very unique guy since you would rather find love, and that is a very good thing. That means you won't be blinded by physical lust in future relationships, and you'll most likely be able to find "the one" a lot quicker. It does make you different, but I can guarantee you with a mentality like this you will most def find a girl who's the same way!
2007-06-02 15:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by sarahbear72688 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think predominantly guys wants sex BUT a serious guy would want sex with love too! doing it with someone you love is truly different from just doing it for the sake of lust. the former has lasting impact. Regarding obsession, anything in excess is always bad -- food, work, loving a person too much, etc and that includes sex. Do things in moderation!
2007-06-02 17:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way, sex isnt all important to me i just want someone that i enjoy being with and they feel the same...... but sex is a bonus, dont change yourself, you'll end up having more meaningful relationships
2007-06-02 11:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by A Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOps you said everyone, and all.
Do you believe in such generalization ?
No It's not weird.
More letters in red than most maybe.
And neither is it weird too be.
There is even a term:
SEX DRIVE.
2007-06-02 06:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you a NICE GUY! I am happy to see that there are a few out there in the world!
2007-06-02 16:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it makes u different..it makes u a good guy ! wish there were more guys like u out there!
2007-06-02 16:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Doglady77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy thinks about other things than sex, its good. guys hoo only think about sex are idiots. be proud.
2007-06-02 11:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are different. Your indifference is a good indifference;>
2007-05-25 17:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by Destiny Wan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋