My parents really don't care about me at all. My Dad even said he didn't love me, he just liked me and sometimes not even that. They used to yell at me for my immaturity but now I'm very mature and trustworthy and they yell at me for stupid reasons like asking if I can go to my grandma's house for a few hours with my cousin (we didn't have anything to do that day and my cousin invited me), or trying to ask my mom how I did on the song I sang to her (for practise for a singing compition) and she tells me to go the f*ck in the other room because she doesn't have time to help with something that I'll never get anywhere with. All I want to do it go somewhere else. I really and truely don't love my family. even my preppy older brother and sister and my spoiled little brat younger brother. What should I do?
I've already tried talking to my parents.
(Yes, this is a repost. I made a mistake on the other.)
2007-05-25 16:01:06 · 9 answers · asked by baby face. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
by the way I'm 13.
2007-05-25 16:12:29 · update #1
my parents do the same thing! They get mad when I ask them to help me with something and cuss my out, they dont let me go ANYWHERE!! It is not fun at all. Do you have anybody that you can really trust with your problems and talk to them aboutit. I have one of those people and she has gotten me through soo much! I have slept at her house because i just couldnt stand being at mine, she helps me soo unbelevebly much! You should try to find one of those people... they will make like just a little bit easier for you =)
2007-05-26 08:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you have to go through that. Some times adults forget what it's like to be young. Your parents are being selfish and self-centered. They may be mad at each other and are just striking out at you because they can't talk to each other about what's bothering them. Because something obviously is. They are not happy, but that's their problem not yours. It's not fair that you get stuck taking all the crap. Continue to be mature and trustworthy. You ARE loved and deserve to be. If they don't come around, you only have to be there a few more years. Keep doing well in school so you can get out of there when you get old enough. It really sucks when all you want is to be loved and there doesn't seem to be any around. My prayers are with you.
2007-05-25 23:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound lame because I am much older than you. I felt that same way you do. I wish I had done what I am going to advise you to do. While you are living at home, try not to listen to the negative things that are said to you. Try to keep saying things to yourself like: "my past will not define my future," "i am a good and worthy person." Keep your self-confidence up by doing well in school and having positive friends. Work hard and hopefully get a scholarship, go to college and get the heck out that house.
You may eventually have a decent adult relationship with your parents and this could work out just fine, but do not let your family have any control over you after you move out.
Good luck to you. I know how hard it is. And you may think it is easy for me to give advice now --- and you are right, it is easier to give advice than it was to live through it myself.
2007-05-25 23:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my heart goes out to you. Some day your parents will realize they made a big mistake. the unfortunate reality is you may never see it. i advise you to find someone you trust to talk to and keep a diary. that will allow you to vent your feeling, so that you don't have to suffer in silence. keep your head a grades up. then you get you'll be able to stay out because you did.
2007-05-25 23:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by ebona1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, didn't you just say in a post 20 minutes before this one that you cat experienced an electric shock? Why are you still on the computer?
2007-05-25 23:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuppers ... you are in it ...I would speak to the Grandparents and see if they can intervene to help you out.
I have heard of other familys where living with another relitive may be a solution.
I wish ya the best of luck.
Just keep keepin' on.
2007-05-26 00:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God for help. If you repent of your sins and ask forgivenes from Him, I gaurantee you will notice a change--maybe not right away (and only if you REALLY said sorry and MEANT it), but God will help you. I know from personal experience and from MANY other people. He will help you through your life (I'm not saying that bad things won't happen, but life WILL be easier to bear.)
2007-05-25 23:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Retro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talkin to your grandma. and if things get worse you can go to counseling.
2007-05-25 23:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad! go see dr.Phil !!!!!!!
2007-05-25 23:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋