bullying issues?

Question

Kids at school are really mean to me tey ridicule me about every tiny thing but mostly about my grades and I dont get wjy because they are really really high I mean super high I am taking algeba not pre allgebra in 7th grade and I had all As and A+s in everything and they all make fun of me saying I cheat even though I dont and call me other stuff like fat even though I am 4'6 and 75 pounds they call me shorty but I understand that because I am and Im not worried about it but they dont have to make a big deal about everyone allready knows and it is getting really anoying I would do anything to have them stop I have talked to my parents but they said they everyones jealouse of me being smart but me knowing that isn't going to make them stop. I have even thought about bringing my grades down on purpose but I really like how all of my family is so proud of me for having good grades but all of the kids bulying me is really taking a toll on my confidense what do I do please help and hurry

Answer 1

Dear Annie:
Don't listen to them kids are MEAN and they hurt people like you for fun... how stupid I know it is hard but ignore them and know that you are very gifted and they are envious that they are not more like you. It is also difficult to have any kind of self esteem but you need to like yourself because there is so much to like...... RIGHT? you are smart and you are not fat and you will grow in to a beautiful woman and have a family and kids. I don't mean to down play your problems but I had two great sons on Sept. 19 2004 my youngest who was just about to turn 18 shot himself. On April 29 2006 his older brother was hit by a drunk driver who was 17 and he was killed now it is just me and my wife. I don't know why but God has helped me through this and with out Him and He will help you through this time in your life Just like he carried me through the most miserable time in my life He can make things ALL GOOD. I hope this helps you will be in my prayers A Cowboy From Arizona

Answer 2

My guess is that most of the bullying is because other students are jealous of your academic success and don't know how to deal with it. I can tell you that it won't last forever, even though it feels like it right now. Don't bring your grades down on purpose. Stick with it and remember that in the long run, those good grades are going to help you have a very successful career after school. It seems awful now, but you won't care at all what those other kids thought when you have a great paying job that you enjoy and they are working at McDonalds.

Answer 3

i really think that they are just jealous. I mean first off all you are definitely not fat, and maybe 4'6 is a little short for 7th grade, but it isn't anything to be ashamed about! And having good grades is a great thing! who cares if they ridicule you because you have high grades! they say that you "cheat" because they wish that they had your grades. lets just put it this way, when you get to high school and your getting amazing grades unlike them, you will be the one laughing. dont worry about it too much, just think of the GOOD things more than the bad!

Answer 4

You need to bring the school into the picture. Next change classes. Above all keep those grades as high as you can because when you are ready to enter the working world or higher ed. the grades will be your ticket to the better things (much better).
When I went back to school I had a child. The other guys made fun because I studied hard. But when it was all over I turned out to be their boss. They hated it but said nothing.

Answer 5

Kids can be cruel...but the main reason they do this is because they are jealous of you!!! Don't ever dumb yourself down to keep them from being mean to you. You making good grades is great! You are going to get way futher than they ever will in life. That is wonderful and you should be proud of yourself. Forget about those kids and ignore them...once you show them that they don't bother you and what they do doesn't effect you then they will stop bothering you. They know it bothers you so they are going to keep doing it. Keep your head up girl...and one day when when you bump into them on the streets and they are begging you for spare change you will have the last laugh!

Answer 6

There have been long term studies done and it's not the victims of bullies that suffer long term effects. They actually do fine later in life. The bullies, however, usually end up in jail (about 70%). They also have problems with relationships later in life (wonder why?). Be a little more firm with your parents, be honest and tell them you're so upset that you're thinking of letting your grades drop. You're parents are proud of you and being a victim of bullying won't change that. If they don't understand, talk to your teacher. They are trained in how to deal with bullying - it's a major problem in schools and teachers and principles are trained in how to deal with it. It's not just you - it happens to many students.

Answer 7

I'm sorry to hear this. I got picked on all through school when I was a kid, too. My mom always told me the same thing about them being jealous and to just ignore it. There's not really anything you can do about other people's behavior. I know it's really hard, and not what you want to hear, but you just have to try your best not to let it get to you. I'm still really short and really skinny, but I'm a lot happier than most of the people who picked on me in school.

Answer 8

Don't let your grades suffer on purpose! Next time the kids bully you, just ignore it. Once they realize that you don't care what they say, it takes the joy out of saying any mean things to you. I hope this works for you! Good Luck!

Answer 9

I dont know you but most likely its not because of your grades but how you act around everyone

Answer 10

i know how you feel i have been picked on all of my life. when they say mean things just think about it you shouldnt bring your grades down for anyone. they are intimidating but just think to yourself that you are better than that and not that immature. and just remember how your family feels about your grades.