Got really drunk at my staff do at the weekend and........???

Question

i was so out of it i dont remember what i was saying. i think it was something along the lines of ...... people in work bully me..... i think i might be gay...... my family are a pack of tramps..... Everyone has lost respect for me; they also think im gay and that i have no respect for my family.....
None of the above are true , but why did i say these things when drunk? does that make them true????
my head is wrecked every time i go out i get in such a state i cant remember a thing-and end up doing something foolish- in short i make a complete fool of myself....
am i gay ? or what is the story can someone help me shed some light on this???????????

Answer 1

Sorry to say this,but you`re a complete ****!Are you force-fed?Why on earth would you drink till you forget your own name and then make a complete mess of your life?You probably have more issues than you realise.Get over yourself man!

Answer 2

I used to be in a lot of similar situations, except, it was more my actions that words that got me in trouble, soooo, I stopped drinking! I am not trying to be a smart ***, but it's amazing how much fun you can STILL have, AND, you don't have to worry about some silly things that you might say and do. I don't think that you're gay. I kissed a girl when I was drunk one time. I'm not gay, but then again, I don't know you, and you may be sitting there in some little pink hot pants...WHO KNOWS?

Answer 3

If you get drunk to the point you can not remember, than you need to seek professional help. You are an alcoholic and need to stop drinking.

To gain back your respect, indicate you are getting help. Once people know you are trying to change, they tend to forgive you.

If you are working, you probably have a source to contact, i.e. EAP (Employee Assistance Program), and they provide free or very inexpensive help. If not, contact an AA group (Alcoholics Anonymous) and attend meetings.

Now is the time to get help. Do not wait until you hit rock bottom.

Good luck. Take care of yourself.

Answer 4

i drink a lot (compared to the average person) on two levels, 1. regularly in moderation (four or five beers and a shot or two of irish whiskey), or 2. once every six weeks i get completely trashed and one of three happens:
1. i end up with an ugly/ almost cute chick and rush out of her house.
2. i leave the bar at 7am with little recollection what i was talking about for the past several hours, but strongly believe it to be relevant and insightful.
3. i turn into a raging jackass and insult people by the handful or entertain the whole bar with one liners and stories of drunken revelry.
you probably are gay because, i've never heard of a straight person doing that. your probably not a good a drunk because of two reasons, your tolerance is low or unpredictable and you tend to get angry or upset with things that aren't working out in your favor. i wouldn't say you need AA because you haven't driven a car into an old persons home while under the influence or picked a fight with an officer you aptly named "mr. plastic badge". find a non drinking hobby you can dedicate yourself to that will require you not to drink; i play pool on two nights a week and don't drink the days of or before, knowing it'll hamper my game.

Answer 5

I was all ways told that alcohol was a form of truth drug. Or maybe you say what others want to here and a few drinks makes you uninhibited and you say what you feel. Any way did you have a good time and the rest were probably in the same boat and can't remember what you said.

Answer 6

I know how you feel, I say and do some horrible things when I'm drunk, then drive myeslf nuts for weeks afterwards thinking and worrying about it. Sometimes the best thing to do is say, look guys, I feel like such and idiot for saying.... whatever it was....
and usually people say, ****, don't worry about it, you were really pi**ed!!

Sometimes alcohol makes us bring up things we genuinely worry about, sometimes we talk complete sh*t, but the best thing to do is stop kicking yourself, don't get a guilt trip about what happened when you were drunk.

If these things are still praying on your mind when you are sober, then find someone to discuss them with, or even take a bigger step and tell the same people that you brought these things up because they were bothering you but you find them hard to talk about when sober. You might be surprised to find people are pretty empathetic when you are honest with them.

Answer 7

i have said some v stupid things when drunk so first off you aint alone . if you have gay feelings when sober then you should be honest with yourself , if not then its prob for sympathty n attention . as for speaking the truth in drink i know thats rubbish . i used to say things purely for attention n sympathy . try not to be so hard on yourself , if you can apologise n rise above it will all blow over . and have a little faith that you , just as you are , is enough . get in touch iof you want to talk .

Answer 8

Ahhh no matey, the reason you say about being gay sounds to me like you are going for the shock tactic!!! Dont worry in situations like that we have all been there and done that.........also so what if you are gay? Its no big problem these days,talk to someone you know really really well,not a workmate but one of your lifelong mates.....hope this helps!

Answer 9

I think the other people are right and you need to get some professional help SOON.

Answer 10

AA can help you shed some light on this.

BTW - if you are gay you already know it, and so does everyone else.