I am happily in love with my boyfriend of 6 years... we have one child together and one on the way. Lately... since my room mate moved in I have been having dreams of hot sex with her older brother. Someone that I have crushed on since I was a freshmen in highschool... so 11 years basically. I feel guilty that I am having those dreams but obviously I cant help what I dream about. HELP!!! Should I feel bad... what does this mean?
2007-05-25 10:11:52 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer K 3 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
You still have an attraction to this guy, and as it will never happen in real life, those feelings are unresolved.
After six years with one guy, no matter how wonderful, it's normal to be tempted and to have sexual thoughts about other men.
Enjoy your naughty dreams, but don't act on them or obsess about them too much. Just realise they are only in your head, and let them go.
2007-05-26 16:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your being tempted by spirits your roommate has brought into your house. Don't feel bad about the visions and lustful feelings you have, this is only part of the deception and contributes to the energy of the spirit tempting you. I don't think your roommate is aware of the influence these spirits can have on you or that she even knows of them.
You need to be firm and stand for what you know it true and right.
You need help now, serious spiritual guidance from a pastor or minister who can pray with you.
Before going to sleep pray and ask God for protection in your mind against powers that threaten your relationship with your boyfriend.
Serious consideration should be given to marriage now because this will break the spell of deceit and lust that is being forced upon you by these evil spirits.
Fear, feelings of guilt, shame, and unfaithfulness will only fuel and feed this entity that is threatening you.
Remember this, you are being assaulted in your mind. Take a defensive aggressive posture towards this assault. Know one deserves what your going through, and you don't have to tolerate it.
Get help, don't be scared.
2007-05-25 13:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by wernerslave 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Know what I say: I say EFF the brain.. Our brains do some outrageous thniking that we can't control sometimes.. and it causes us to create these feelings about our thoughts.. But how are we supposed to know if our thoughts are true or not?? We can determine if our feelings are true... but what are we supposed to do with our thoughts??
It's just a dream.. and nothing to worry about because you and your boo are happily in love and nothing can break your love.. Especially a little lousy dream..
2007-05-25 10:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by jessie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oral Sex
To dream that you are giving or receiving oral sex, signifies your willingness to give or receive pleasure/joy.� It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that you are headed in the right direction in life.� The dream may also be a pun on talking about sex. You may need to communicate with your mate about your sexual needs and desires. Perhaps you are acting out your sexual wishes.
Sex
To dream about sex, may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.
To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.
To dream that you are having sex with an ex or something that is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together.�Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fianc�. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.
If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, signifies not necessarily homosexual desire, but an expression of greater self love and acceptance. You need to be in better touch of your feminine or masculine side.
Anal Sex
To dream about anal sex, represents submission. You may be afraid to yield to the wants and desires of others.
Sexuality
To dream about your own sexuality, signifies the secrets and meaning of life. You may be dealing with life issues of birth, marriage, and/or death. Alternatively, it suggests that you are concerned about losing your sex appeal.
2007-05-25 16:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have Naughy dream I thought i was the only one
2007-05-25 12:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Zippy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your subconsious is telling you to resolve unresolved delimmas. If your boyfriend and you are meant to be he'll understand, beside he deserves your whole heart
2007-05-25 10:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Greg 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋