christians do you think?

Question

people are rude,mean and judgemental because THEY are unhappy

and misery loves company

Answer 1

Well I believe misery loves company, but I don't think all people are mean and judgemental because they are unhappy I think they are this way because they just can and just want to be but there is going to be a day when they have to take an account for all their actions...SMILE

Answer 2

I think that people are rude and mean because of character flaw known as sin; a nature we are all born with inherited and imputed because of Adam and Eve's disobedience.

Judgmental is only bad if the one judging is doing the same thing as the person judged.

We judge people by their words and actions. We do this everyday. Tell me you did not judge the fast food drive-thru clerk that screwed up your order. How about the auto mechanic that failed to fix your car and overcharged you in the process? How about President Bush... I'm betting you have made a few judgments about him.

How can you say a person is good (or bad or mean or rude) without judging?

"Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye make clean the outside of the cup and of the platter, but within they are full of extortion and excess." Matt 23:25 (KJV)

Answer 3

No. Sometimes answers are rude because people have had bad days, are sick of the same old questions, or perhaps have other things in life that are stressing them out and come on here looking to take it out on someone.
Don't judge anyone by only one encounter.
God never said that just because you are a Christian that you would or should always be happy. I don't think we should expect that of anyone else either. We all have bad days.

Answer 4

I am a christian..and I think that they can be that way because they are unhappy..but there could be other reasons...I dont really know how other people feel and why they behave the way they do because I am not God and I do not have any right to judge because I am not perfect either.

Answer 5

I think that many Christians are unhappy for those reasons.

I think that everybody is judgemental. If we didn't make judgements, we wouldn't survive. We have to size up those around us.

I do think that Christians have a deep seated uneasiness with their belief. Deep down, there is a part of them that realizes that it is just superstition. That's why they get so upset when we merely point out the obvious faults.

What one considers "rude" is very subjective and frequently has little to do with actual intent.

Answer 6

People are rude and unhappy because they don't have Jesus. I don't know if you're talking about Christians or people in general. But, I know one thing, I have Jesus in my heart and I don't judge but show love...I'm not perfect but I'm happy because Jesus is working through my heart and renewing it.

Answer 7

Speaking the Truth is not being judgemental.

Christians are not called to hold non-believers accountable, but God calls believers to hold each other accountable. Believers are to be held to a higher standard.

Non of this has anything to do with feelings...happy, sad, or indifferent.

Answer 8

No, that's just the way they are. Well, not quite correct for all. Atheists and other non-believers are rude to us because they know they're wrong and they hate us because of it.

Answer 9

Since the definitions of what constitutes 'rude', 'mean' and 'judgemental' are all subjective and vary from person to person and case to case, the entire question is irrelevant, as usual.

Answer 10

I think they have not found inter piece, rather they claim to be Christians or not, There is a true inter piece when your walking with God and in his will.