My friend, Lisa, is in the process of losing weight and I have to say, she looks great. But she is really worried that guys won't be as into her if they found out that she used to be overweight. What should I tell her?
2007-05-25 10:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She used to be 250lbs now she's 150lbs and her goal is 135-140lbs.
2007-05-25 10:39:38 · update #1
I've been through this, and I understand were she's coming from. Most guys will not care so long as your beautiful now....
It will only matter to him if he's a shallow and vain individual, and in that case she shouldn't want him anyway....
Let her know that an "Authentic Man" will love her for who she has become, And she should never want to be with a man that she has to hide her past from... An Authentic Man will Like/Love her regardless, reminder her that she's more than her weight.
2007-05-25 16:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Glamorous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should the fact that she used to be overweight matter? I'm sure she's just as pretty now as she was before she started losing weight. You, as her friend, just need to reassure her that she looks good n o matter what. If you help her by boosting her confidence, then she'll feel better about herself! Good luck!
2007-05-25 17:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by ..... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys will like the fact that she has made the effort to lose weight, but they could also be scare that they gett it back. also, some guys do not care about a girls past, so if she is skinny now, then that is all that matters.
2007-05-25 17:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She should be proud and even more confident that she has put in so much effort and reached her target.
i am sure the guy will be attracted to her will power too and will infact be impressed.
2007-05-25 17:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by void 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is already worried about the wrong thing. She did it for her and nobody else. She accomplished alot for herself. I'll tell her*#@! them, and enjoy herself. Just that look of confidence will attract the right people. You go girl!!!
2007-05-25 17:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by ifuaskme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys out there won't care about how she used to look, just how she looks like now.
2007-05-25 17:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by ahnmsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not hide it. What an accomplishment. Congrats to her. Beside, would she really want a guy that is that shallow?
2007-05-25 17:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bookworm4124 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's projecting and awfulizing at the same time.
2007-05-25 17:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its whats on the inside wheather you are fat or thin. !!!
2007-05-25 17:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by ruthlessstuart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty lies skin deep. =p
2007-05-25 17:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by killerweed_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋