Is this normal? Does it mean he does not really love her?
2007-05-25 08:51:34 · 19 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kitty,What he has asked for is a double edged sword and it will cut both ways! The relationship between the two will be changed forever.If your friend wants to do this, enter at her own risk.If he is a properly functioning male (down there) he will not want to settle for just watching more than once!Or it will scare him to death.(If he loves his wife in his heart) It may cause a snowball effect and get out of control very fast! The wife may connect to well with other women and She may decide he is not enough for her anymore! My point is if both reinvents themselves to each other so to re spark that sexual flame They will need no one else in there bed! IF he thinks with his heart and not with his little man,he would want nothing outside of the girl he married and would Not want anything to come between them!!!!! Best of luck to them because it is all a mindgame.
2007-05-26 06:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by profile is deleted 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It's just a fantasy that some men have. If she wants to go along with it, then it's fine as long as people consent.
If she says no & he keeps insisting, then he's not respecting her.
I agree with what some other people have written. He should be careful about what he asks for. She may end up liking the other girl more than she likes him. It's happened before.
Besides, I've also heard a lot of guys say that while they like the fantasy, they hate the reality. The reality often ends up that they realize that there is no place for them in the "girl action" & that they could care less if he gets off or not.
2007-05-25 16:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the ultimate male fantasy. The problem is he may be opening a can of worms he may not be prepared for. Have your friend and her husband watch "The Sex Monster." It's a 1999 movie starring Mariel Hemingway. He may just change his mind.
2007-05-25 16:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure, he wants to "watch" , LOL! I think this is quite normal for a male fantasy. Acting out this fantasy .... some do, some don't . What it might mean to their relationship, ...depends on their relationship. LOL. One thing I do believe, is that "watching" will soon lead to "joining". I think you can count on that.
2007-05-25 16:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by hotttdott 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not to say he doesnt love her i guess he just has a fantasy he wants fufilled but if your friend is uncomfortable i would tell him that it hurts her to think he wants to see another woman like that and she is not comfortable if he loves her he will understand .
2007-05-25 15:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by hcj25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal in some cases, but I think that he just wants a threeway to happen to be the end result.
2007-05-25 15:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by vegetaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is for his entertainment.... What he do realize is, someone may get up with some feelings. My ex (bf) had me do that 5 years ago. I am still with that woman today.
2007-05-25 15:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just bored or wants to fufill a long time fantasy.
2007-05-25 15:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Zoila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some guys like for thier women to do that, but it does mean that he doesnt love her. And it's wrong
2007-05-25 15:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think all men have this secret fantasy. He is prolly just wanting to play around with her about this.......
2007-05-25 17:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋