I met this girl a couple of weeks ago that I really like and care about, and I believe she feels the same. We've been on 2 dates and have talked on the phone alot, but there's been problems because I've been very clingy to her. She mentioned before that she would not be exclusive with a guy for a couple of months, but I fear that we won't last that long. A couple of reasons is that 1) she earlier told me that she's been talking to another guy who she met online, 2) that I've been scaring her because of me clinging to her and 3) she initally didn't tell me that I was clinging to her and it was bothering her. I told her that I would stop and she still wants to see me this weekend, but that she wants to take it one day at a time. Is there hope left that she would want to still date me after this weekend or that after this weekend she would not to anymore?
2007-05-25 08:51:21 · 3 answers · asked by Mouser33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she's not the right person for you right now. you sound like you need a girl who wants a relationship and this woman doesn't sound like she really wants a serious relationship.
2007-06-01 16:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by hi everyone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . I don't like to break news like this, but I don't think it's going to work. She's only been on two dates with you, for one thing. That isn't much of a relationship. From the look of it, you took things too fast and got too intense. Remember, some women go out on dates with men they aren't attracted to just to keep them busy until they find someone they are attracted to. Back off and keep trying, but don't expect anything. Good luck!
2007-05-25 08:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to chill.............women find clingy to be VERY unattractive. I do it myself sometimes when i REALLY like someone and it allways scares them away. You have to act like you don't care and just date for fun!!
2007-05-25 08:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋