These are my most precious of thoughts and desire. These thoughts are so personal. Why would I want to share them with ...people? I'm bi , so what do I say if someone asks? I just got back to by home town and old friends are asking.
2007-05-25 04:52:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks everybody. All your answers were very thoughtful. Appreciate it! I'm adding all of you to my contact list.
thanks again
2007-05-29 02:08:09 · update #1
Fret not, but if you are comfortable revealing this information, then stand proud!
Kisses and hugs, and poisonous bugs,
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2007-05-25 05:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you have every reason to be uncomfortable in not letting others know that you are bi because there is a whole of of bigotry in the world toward the LGBT community. The closed-minded ones are the ones that you have to really worry about because you don't know if they will just calling you horrid names or if they are bullies that think that they can take action and beat the living daylights out of those who are different than themselves.
2007-05-25 13:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A simple, "How in the world is this of any interest to you?" will suffice. Some will be thinking, "ah ha!...he's gay!" But they will not go around town talking about it, for they do not have a direct answer. In saying this, you put the person down, hopefully in public. I agree, your life is your private domain and does not belong in the barbershop. I suppose you could ask, if it were a male friend, " Are you making a pass at me?" That will end it dead in its tracks. If it were a woman who asked me, I think a simple, "I do not think you and I are meant to be romantic...your priorities seem strange to me." Good luck and peace.
2007-05-25 12:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do what's best for you. If you don't want to come out you don't have too... It's not like when you come out you buy ad space on a bill board, most people do it, because it's liberating, and it tells close friends/family members/whomever more about that person. Again just do what you feel is right. :)
2007-05-25 12:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not comfortable doing anything, don't. If someone asks you, you can say that it is an issue that you would rather not discuss the issue. Just remember, if someone is a true friend, then they will be there at the end of the day no matter what.
2007-05-26 21:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kim's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So stay in. Coming out should be on your own terms.
You'll just have to keep coming up with answers to the questions your old friends are asking, unless you are very good at changing the subject
2007-05-25 12:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't comfortable coming out, then don't come out. When you're ready, you'll know, and it will be a much smoother transition than if you feel like you're up against a rock and a hard place.
Best of luck!
2007-05-25 12:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell anyone unless you want to. You limit chances of meeting people though if you are quiet all the time.
2007-05-25 12:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what your comfortable with.
Don't be pressured to come out or stay in (so to speak)
Then if your not comfortable, say your straight, you're not going to go to gay hell.
Your sexuality is your own, no one else needs to know if you don't want them to...
2007-05-25 11:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bleed Like Me..... 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable revealing details about yourself to people, then don't . I really like Goldwing110083 suggestions. They will work and you can keep your privacy.
2007-05-25 12:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋