what do you think?

Question

well my boyfriend is a jerk basically. first of all he ditches me to go with his ex-girlfriend. so wat i need to know is do u guys think he still likes her? i mean its like everytime is ee him he is with her and when i want ot spend time with him she ends up taken him away. and now he doenst even like to get close to me and it seems like he dont love me anymore. and now he is always with her and not me anymore. and to see them together jus makes me wonder if they are back together. wat do you guys think? should i talk to him and see whats going on or should i just leave him to be with her? do you guys have any suggestions and any helpful ideas of what i should do

Answer 1

LEAVE HIS *** ASAP. How could you stay with a "boy" who would whether spend time with his ex-girlfriend, he obviously has feelings for her. He is using you b/c he doesn't care and he thinks it's ok and he could do that b/c you are still with him, so he can have both of you double the pleasure. That is your fault sometimes the behaviors that guys have/act towards you is b/c of you, they know right a way what you will allow, b/c if I was you his *** would have been kicked to the curve a long long time ago. Do not have the mentality that you need a man be happy and Confident with yourself, love yourself first before any man. Do not think you need him, it is his loss he is losing a really good girl and just remember better will come. Tell him straight up it is not going to work b/c you are not going to put up with his **** and you can get Any Man you want. After a while he will probably call you hoping you will take him back but if you have any sense DON'T, he is immature and a player who wants too much and cannot be satisfy with what he has. LEAVE HIM, That is the best thing you can do for yourself right now, there is no salvaging the relationship.

Good luck
Simone

Answer 2

I say move on. He is not worth it. You will find a guy that will never think about doing such a thing to you. I am not sure how long you two have been together but no matter how long it has been it should never cross his mind to do such a thing to some one he cares about. I would say that they are back together or working on getting back together. Look for some one new and fast!!

Answer 3

Okay, first of all if he is hanging out with his ex, what in the world are you thinking. You need to drop him like a bad habit. Obviously if he is hanging out with her, than he still likes her. Sorry for be so stern but honestly.....If he knows that you dont like that he hangs out with her and he still continues to do it. Obviously he cares about himself and her more than you. My advice is, find a new bf. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Answer 4

Ditch him and move on. Life is too short for that kind of headache so soon.

Plenty of other dudes in the sea.

If he doesn't get the clue that he's disrespecting you, then you should.

Good luck!

Answer 5

I really think that u should talk to him.....ask him what is up...and if he still likes his "ex" ....and if he says yes...then the best thing to do is just get out the way...don't make a big deal out of it* trust me*
Good Luck*

Answer 6

Just the fact that he is ditching you, whether it be for someone else or not, is enough to kick his *** to the curb. Don't waste your time on this loser anymore. Get yourself someone who will respect you and appreciate being with you.

Answer 7

Give up. Concede totally to her. Let him know you don't want to share. The thrill of the pull from both of you is what is keeping him going. Just deflate him. Besides, are you sure there are only two of you girls he is doing this with?

Answer 8

see what is going on it sound like it but try to talk to him if you still like him