i feel like i'm stuck in a hole. my family is a disaster and my school is a joke. i work pretty much everyday so i dont have to be home. i dont know what to do! i want a way out and suicide is something that i'm looking closely at. can anyone give me some advince?!
2007-05-25 03:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
some asked how old i am i'm 18.
2007-05-25 04:13:12 · update #1
suicide is permanent...problems pass.....
no matter how bad they are...eventually things get better....
i have been raped, had three miscarriages, been divorced twice......been in miserable marriages twice...... always it seemed as though things would "never get better" and that i was "better off dead"
but i am so glad now that those suicide attempts failed....
i have a good life now.....
2007-05-25 03:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Part of the problem, I think, is that the solution is different for almost every person. I kept looking for an answer that had a series of steps that I could follow to find peace and happiness, and I don't think that one exists.
I went to my pastor for help, counselling, read every self-help book I could find...I think that for me, the answer was surrounding myself with people who lifted me up instead of dragging me down, I write in a prayer journal all the time, and I keep trying to do something to help someone else, because being needed, useful, and productive has done a LOT for me...I can see where I make a differnence, and my existance here DOES matter. I adopted three kids, and we have a happy life together.
If you go back out the door today, or tomorrow, and determine to make a difference, you will. Volunteer to read stories to the kindergarten class. Offer to tutor a kid who goes home alone after school. There are SO MANY people out there, just like you, who are hurting and the best way out I found was to help other people, and in the end, they helped me!!
Talk to someone. The biggest step is reaching out, and you already have shown that you can do that!
Good luck!
2007-05-25 04:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE,PLEASE call a suicide hot line number NOW!! There should be one located in your phone book or call a Nurse Help line. You DO NOT have to identify yourelf! They are there for you, sweetie. Please call someone. I don't even know you but I can tell you that you are a beautiful person, even tho you don't feell like one right now. What is going on with your family is NOT your fault! and school is a problem because of the way you feel and feel about yourself.
If you will get some advice from a professional now...someday you will be giving advice (and KNOW just where the person is coming from and how they feel) just as I am now. I have been there and know that, unless you get help...it will not get better. It may seem like it but you need to know how to handle these feelings when they arise. You are in my prayers!........I CARE ABOUT YOU!! and there are a lot of other "strangers" out here who do, too.
2007-05-25 04:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by bigsis 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well suicide is never the answer. You should find somthing you like and be dedicated to it to take your mind off things. And here's a quote that might help....in the end everyhtings ok and if its not ok its not the end..........Just analyze all the things you have in front of you and alll the things you can do and be in your future DONT GIVE UP
2007-05-25 04:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by anna s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wecome to life! : ) Sometimes you just have to make the best of it. You'll pull through and you'll be proud of yourself b/c you came out of this a stronger person. I would just try to focus on your school work and favorite hobbies. It sucks so bad to be a teenager, I know. You are going through so many changes right now. It will get better, promise. Just remember that YOU are in charge of your own mind! You are in charge of your mood. Just try to make the best of things right now and just be happy to be alive and healthy! A lot of people might kill to be in your position! Good Luck to you! Maybe you could talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. I don't know what I would have done if I didn't have my mom through my teenage years....she was my rock. She still is. Good Luck Sweetie!
2007-05-25 04:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by fairiesbreath 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and is not an option. PLEASE get professional help ASAP. I am glad that you have work to escapte to but you are going to have to start fixing the problems. Look at one thing you can change and start there. I wish I knew more about the situation including your age.
2007-05-25 03:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by TAT 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This thing about suicide has been a ball and chain around my leg for all of my adult life.I would tell yourself to resolve to live.Hold your head up and be in for the good fight.Stay strong, do not give in.
2007-05-25 04:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by SHAWN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really need to speak to someone ~ a clergy ~ close friend, close friends parent or school counselor ~ Suicide is not the answer ~ reach out to someone and talk ~ speak your mind and listen to yourself as you speak ~
2007-05-25 03:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Drinda C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats not hard reason for suiciding.
people who suicide are the people who are under high pressure, like trauma, poverty, people lost thier future.
A lot of teens have disaster family, and bad school.
2007-05-25 04:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
commit sucide??ask urself can commit sucide solve all ur problems???once u commit sucide u will not have the chance to live in this world...problems is just temporily....moreoever,too much of stress can lead to depression..maybe u shld talk to a councellor
btw b4 u commit sucide,do u knw tat in this world there are many people still struggling to live in this world???treasure ur life...
2007-05-25 04:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋