i am 16 almost 17 and im going to move out because she doesnt accept my sexuality can she do anything to me ?

Question

she doesnt accept me and were always arguing and doesnt allow me to have friends or talk to the phone or go out or anything she is always making me feel bad and she even said that she was going to tell my uncles to kick my *** to make me a man so she threatened me now do you see our problems and why i want to leave so what do you think can she do something to me for leaving the house ?

Answer 1

Are you talking about your mother, it sounds like she wants you to move out. I'd try it out what could be the worse that could happen.

Answer 2

Your a minor she could call the police to come get you. But it sounds like you are in a very hostile living environment. I am so sorry about that. I would speak to an adult you trust at school.

If not possible or you don't get help here is a list of helpful resources. It's important for you to get into a safer situation. Please know that you are not alone.


Trevor Helpline for Gay and Lesbian Youth
24 Hrs a Day / 7 Days a Week
1-866-488-7386 or 1-800-850-8078


LYRIC Helpline
Monday through Saturday, 6:30-9:00 p.m., Pacific Standard Time
1-800-969-6884 (96-YOUTH)



Gay & Lesbian National Hotline
Monday through Friday 4pm to midnight EST
Saturday noon to 5:00pm EST
1-888-THE-GLNH (1-888-843-4564)
Youth Talkline:
Toll-free 1-800-246-PRIDE (1-800-246-7743)
Monday thru Friday 8pm to Midnight, Eastern Time)
www.glnh.org


The Nine Line For Homeless / Runaway Teens
24 Hours a Day / 7 Days a Week
1-800-999-9999

For information about...

...Communicating with other LGBT teens on the internet, contact Youth Guardian services
1-877-270-5152
www.youth-guard.org


...Starting a Gay-Straight Alliance or other school issues, contact the Gay-Straight Alliance Network
415.552.4229
www.gsanetwork.org/

...Issues with parents, contact PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)
202-467-8180
www.pflag.org


...Teen Support and sexuality, contact Advocates for Youth
202-347-5700
www.advocatesforyouth.org



...A list of Gay and Lesbian youth groups nationwide:
http://www.youthresource.com/about/youth_group.htm

Answer 3

Shortie has a point. I'd check with your Department of Social Services about become an emancipated minor. Even though you're not 18, you can still be on your own. But each state has different requirements for this (some you need to be self-sufficient, some you need to be in school, etc.), so I'd check to see what your state requires. Once you declare yourself an emancipated minor, you can go and she can do nothing legally to stop you.

Your uncles, however, may be a different story. . .

Good luck, sweetie.

Answer 4

If you ran away from home, your mom could call the police and you would be locked up in juvenile detention until your mom comes to get you out. You're not legally an adult until you're 18 years old. If I were you, lie to her. Pretend that you're straight, act like a normal, heterosexual boy, get a (fake) girlfriend, etc. Pull the wool over your mom's eyes until you become an adult, then go on about your business and live your life the way you want to.

Answer 5

if you wanan run way it is not a rime i ran away seral times at the age of 14 and well talk to your scholl teaher bout it or some 1 you have many lwas that protect you and is she did say that call the 9/11 on her ok she has to acept you for who you are

Answer 6

You cannot leave your parent's house (if the she you were referring to is your mother). She can call the police and have them drag you back home if you are under 18. However, you can opt to stay with your father if he is around. But I am afraid these are your only options. Perhaps you should keep your sexuality to yourself for one year while you live in your mother's house. If you are being abused, you can call DHS and they will investigate and put you in a shelter.

Answer 7

You're gonna have to suck it up (no pun intended) for another year until your 18. Technically, you are still a minor and you're parents still have a say in your life until you are 18. Once you are 18, you are free to do whatever you want as far as your living arrangements are concerned.

Answer 8

First just prayer and ask God to lead you and the right path because there is nothing like a familys love but if this doesnt work then just do what you have to do to make yourself happy.

Answer 9

It depends on what state you are in. My ex boyfriend ran away when he was 17 and they reported him as a runaway. When the cops found him they arrested him.

Answer 10

Poor you.

Life sucks for everybody. Some people's problems make yours sound as trivial as they are.

Are you, in fact, pregnant? If not why is the question posted under that heading?