okay, so the past few months have been quite rough on the love matters for me. and here is a run through....
6 months ago, i got very close to this guy. we were sort of best friends then (we'd talk on the phone all day or chat or hang out when im allowed to go out) until he had to admit that he think he's falling for me. i didnt know how to handle it because right from the start i've told im how i hated people who'd use friendship to get a girl...AND one major detail is that back then, i was SORT OF a lesbian (a confused one, although i really liked girls...it's just complicated...and i havennt been with a guy then)...so i told him that i think we should just be friends...since then he started to act all weird on me. he stopped calling and we eventually stopped talking.
next. my closest female friend wont stop flirting with me. i told here i dont do 'things' with friends, only with aquintances. since then we dont get to talk anymore(not like we used to)...
wait..not done...
2007-05-25 02:57:44 · 4 answers · asked by wooo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so geuss what comes next? now the two are together and neither one is talking to me like before...and the guys acts as if he doesnt know me...
i dont know what it means...mind explaining this whole thing to me?
another thing is that im the type of person who hates having to commit...i can love a person but i dont want to get too attached...i dont want to risk seriously getting myself into anyone just yet and that's what people dont seem to understand...
some info:
i still like girls but im considering being bi
i sometimes regret turning the two down because i sort of miss the friendship..and i think i got jealous when i found out the two were together...
i dunno...i think im selfish...i just dont like the people who gives me attention to give ither people attention...even if i cant like them back...
im not sure what the question really is...but can someone just tell me what i want to/ need to hear?
i'm seeing someone now but i cant get these things out of my head
2007-05-25 03:09:34 · update #1
okay, maybe it had all been a stupid thing...bubt do anyone want to be a little bit more helpful? LOL.
2007-05-25 04:23:06 · update #2
i need an answer so i can give this issue a rest. please?
2007-05-26 23:31:34 · update #3
that is a bad situation you should talk to some one. Your not stupid but that was a stupid situation, think more before you get caught up
2007-06-02 02:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down and take some time off the dating scene until you can get it figured out. Sounds like you're so worried about finding someone that you're getting all worked up. If you don't feel it, it ain't meant to be.
2007-06-01 19:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by Troll Slayer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get these people out of your mind, and wait to find your real self before you take anyone seriously.
2007-06-02 00:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by barbwire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just plain stupid
2007-05-25 03:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by mamigirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋