2007-05-25 02:36:02 · 37 answers · asked by aquamarine2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
decide whether or not you can deal with it. Obviously he's not going to change and he wants to be with other women. I suggest you move on to someone else if you are looking for a monogamous/committed relationship ..unless you are completely fine with sharing your man or having an open relationship!! Sounds like you're not, so take time to hang out with your friends and meet new guys..go out on dates and heck...sleep with other men!! You'll be over him soon and you'll look back and be angry with yourself for not dumping him sooner!!! He's a player and probably has diseases!! Why waste your time thinking about him? He's probably screwing another woman as you read this!! Move on girl..you deserve better..there are PLENTY of other fish in the sea...who would be happy to be monogamous with you!! Good luck!! :)
2007-05-25 02:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man you love is a love like a friend or brother, you can make suggestions to him about living his life better
BUT...I assume you are talking your romantic love towards this man who is sleeping around.....
In that case, you need to give yourself a LOT more credit. You can do so much better than loving a man who has no respect for you. It is not worth the time and effort to love him when he is obviously not as committed to you.
2007-05-25 02:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's understandable that you love the guy. He must have some redeeming features. But he's a dog. Dump him. Your heart is going to keep getting broken if you let him talk you into coming back again and again. You're better off without him. And somewhere out there there is a man who will not break your heart, will treasure you as you deserve, and will treat you right.
Just believe in yourself.
Trilli.
2007-05-25 02:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Trillium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question Ask your self these questions How does it make me feel when he is out with someone else Does he respect me by sleeping with other women Does he put my needs and emotions first Is he respectful and hard working You can now evaluate am i better off with him or without him You should always put yourself first and be treated as such Never settle for second best There are many guys out there who would treat you right
2007-05-25 02:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you love a man who sleeps around like that?
are you dating this man or is it just someone you know?
I think you should re-evaluate what "love" is.... because if he is sleeping around rather than spending time with you, then he obviously doesnt respect and honor you, and he clearly doesnt deserve you.
if you are dating a man who is sleeping around, then whoahoh buddy... you need to kick this scumbag to the curb. you are seriously better than that. and if he is simply someone you know and WANT to get closer, than you dont love him, its infatuation, which has the potential to become love... but he's got to put a stop to being a man whore. If you can talk to him and make him a one-woman-man.. then id suggest making him wait for sex (he's seemed to have enough for a lifetime)... i just mean dont give it up to him so easily. hes used to that. also... have him get tested.
you have to watch out for yourself
2007-05-25 02:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're putting your heart, your time, and your energy in the wrong place. Forget about this guy. Go out and live. Make new friends and enjoy the ones you have. Don't waste your time on a guy who won't devote his time to you. Eventually, you'll meet someone new who will feel the same way that you do.
2007-05-25 02:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a Muslim and love isn't antagonistic to Islam see you later as you do not do some thing haraam. you need to target to talk on your mom and father first about her and convince them that she is a sturdy man or woman. attempt to introduce her to ur kinfolk and be conscious what they say after that. at the same time as your previous adequate and over 18 then u might want to marry her i imagine even with if ur mom and father do not agree yet as she is muslim too then that would want to need to be all that concerns :) sturdy success, i desire each little thing seems properly for you Inshallah :)
2016-11-27 02:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! listen up my friend, You may love him but you do not need heartach, or a STD. GET AWAY FROM HIM and stay away. Trust me there really are enough good men out there that would love you and you alone. This guy is a player and will most likely do what ever it takes to get into a girls pants!!!!
Good luck!
2007-05-25 02:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by John C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'd go to the clinic and get checked for VD. You don't know what his other women may have given to him - and that he's passed on to you!
Then I'd go find a nice guy who doesn't have to prove to himself that he's a man by "doing" every girl who walks his way.
2007-05-25 02:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That one is easy. You dump him. You may suffer at the beginning, but time cures everything, and you will feel better in the long run. You will NEVER be happy with this man, and you will regret it if you stick around.
2007-05-25 02:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by sweet21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋