I'm a mother of five children, I don't look like it, I look young every ones always amazed when I say that they're my children, I guess I'm amazed too when I look at myself. When I go out men always approach me. I have my photos up on a couple of sites and I even have pictures with my family up and I announce all the time that those are my children and a lot of them don't care they still want to date me or meet me. They seem like they really like me
I just find that weird and these people do seem normal and most of them are very educated and have normal jobs. what do you think?
2007-05-25 02:12:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a woman with 5 children is viewed by many men (im just being real here) as an ez lay. . . or
you could be attracting pedophiles, be careful. . . or
you just may be all that you say you are and any man would be a fool not to try to get you for a wife!
2007-05-25 02:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by mikedotcom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound harsh - but are you asking a question or are you gloating?
That said, there are women with five children - and there are broodmares. Here are some of the differences between the two - is it any wonder a WW5C is desireable - still?
A WW5C is cool, confident, loving, kind, charming, organized, outgoing and forward thinking.
A broodmare is frumpy, dowdy, tired, crabby, disorganized, and is embroiled in the past - often despising men because hers dumped her for a trophy wife - or else he died trying to live up to her expectations.
A WW5C is educated - or is getting that way, independent, is strong of faith, and has a healthy relationship with her Ex.
A broodmare is ignorant and opinionated beyond her knowledge, depends on others for everything, blames God for her ills, and despises her Ex - and lets everyone know what a 'rat' he was to leave her.
And a WW5C doesn't have to look like Ivanna Trump either. She can be a bit on the plump side and not very pretty. But she's still a WW5C.
A broodmare can be young and fresh - but still be a broodmare.
This is clearly the case of what's on the inside shows on the outside.
2007-05-25 02:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a mama of four, so I know where you're coming from. It's just that most men are mature enough to accept children. I am 30, my children are 13, 10, 6, 5. I have been married for just a little over a year now to a 23 year old man, that loves the kids like they are his own and even treats them better then their biological father does.
2007-05-25 02:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,they are looking beyond those five children.They want to get to know you,and about you rather than that popular stop sign when children are involved.However,I also must say there are a fair share of males who are in it not for the relationship.Not only you get that,that is everywhere.Beware of that.I would not put myself(if i were you) out of the dating game,i would be a little more cautious as children are involved.Nothing wrong with dates,and friends,and having fun but you also want to be a little more aware.Other than that,i say have fun and hopefully you will find a wonderful man willing to stand by you through it all.Good luck hun,and have a good day!
2007-05-25 02:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that a man wanting to date a woman with five children is very brave. I think having five children is very brave. My two are all I can handle and I'm still married. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. One of them might be the perfect guy for you.
2007-05-25 02:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Peronally, i think that these men are, at first attracted to you because of your physical appearance. When you tell them that you have 5 children, it will not really bother them at first until they want to get into a serious relationship with you, then only the ones who are actually serious about you will remain. Those guys are the real family men and the ones you deserve :)
Hope this answers your question,
[METALMOUTH]
2007-05-25 02:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never post photos of myself or my children on any sites. As many perverts and pedophiles that are out there, I would not give any of them the chance to know about me and my children. Dangerous people can appear normal.
2007-05-25 02:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends...he could be impotent, he could be sincere, or he could be looking at the kids more than you. These are things only YOU can sort out; but if he seems like a stand-up guy, you'd better land him pretty quick. There ain't a lot of guys out there that want to take on a tribe of that size without their own contribution to it...
2007-05-25 02:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion. They just want a good time, no strings attached because you're attractive.
Approaching you or dating you is completely different from wanting a serious relationship with you.
They probably would think very hard before pursuing a serious relationship with you because you and your children are a package deal.
2007-05-25 02:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Schwinn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it with a grain of salt. some of them are probably jerks that just want to get in your pants and will tell you anything you want to hear...but some of them may be genuine. now-a-days most single men and women have been married before and/or have had children. they could be in the same position you are with children of their own.
2007-05-25 02:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Laura H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋