My mom is angry at me i guess i was getting on her nerves but today she went bilistic, she went up to my room started yelling and called me a *****, it really hurt me to hear that word come out of her mouth, no one likes hearing that :( i feel really sad now what can I do to feel better? Ever experienced the same thing from your mom?
2007-05-25 02:07:16 · 18 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No i wasnt being one thats why im so hurt about it :(
2007-05-25 02:15:53 · update #1
Take it from a mom. She didn't mean it and she is feeling just as bad as you are I promise. My daughter drives me crazy sometimes too and we have certainly said things we didn't mean to each other. Let by gones be by gones, and do something nice for her. Have a great day, sweetie
2007-05-25 02:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by jdnsmama13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was no excuse for your mother to call you that name. But, moms are people, too, and sometimes we make terrible mistakes. But don't give her the silent treatment, that doesn't accomplish anything and just creates more resentment. When things calm down and are normal between the two of you, sit her down and talk to her. First, apologize for getting on her nerves. Then, tell her how much it hurt you to hear that word come out of her mouth. I hope things work out for you sweetie.
2007-05-25 02:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some parents can admit when they're wrong. Give her a chance. I'm sure she feels just as bad as you do about it.
Go to her and tell her that you love her, and that you're sorry she felt she needed to call you that, but that it really hurt your feelings. Let her know that isn't the sort of relationship you want to have with her at all.
Once the name calling starts, it can be hard to stop.
I'm sure she'll apologize if given the chance
2007-05-25 04:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since youre upset and hurt i take it this is unusual...which means you prob know what triggered it. Moms can be driven over the edge like anyone else. Maybe you should go apologize for whatever you did to make her lose control.
2007-05-25 02:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for your mom calling you that name. You need to tell her that she hurt your feelings, and ask her not to ever call you that again. You definitely deserve an apology.
2007-05-25 02:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moms are people too, and people get mad and say things they dont mean! especially since you're her daughter you just gotta try and understand 'she was just mad'. when you both cool down, just sit her down and tell her that it really cuts you deep to hear her call you such names and maybe, MAYBE she'll stop that crap. i feel for you though~ my mom was the same way until i was about 17. we have a great relationship now.
2007-05-25 02:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by *DiZzLe* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not by my mom .....she's called us names B4 but I really don't pay it any mind......because I know she loves me no matter how many times we made her go off.....your moms may have been out of line for what she said ....but you know she cares for you....she just had a bad moment.....pretty sure you have called her a name or two before ...... I'm sure your not telling the whole story.....you did say that you had been getting on her nerves ....try to forget about it .....when she chills out ...go to her and give her a hug....she's probably feeling bad for what she said ...but you know parents .....cant admit they were wrong.....
2007-05-25 02:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 00:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by gizzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my mother never called me a name like that and if she did, I'd show her I can be one and she'd get the cold treatment among other things.
2007-05-25 02:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let her cool off and go down and talk to her and tell her that your feeling were hurt because she called you a ***** and a mom should never call you that at all
2007-05-25 02:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by jones j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋