i have been talking with a man on the internet {ims} for awhile now, i am 52, he is 67, i really have feelings for him and i think he feels the same,he is going to visit his hometown soon and it is very near to where i live, i think he may want for us to meet!!! i am very scared, excited, nervouse, i relly will want to, but im afraid i wont live up to his expectations, we have exchanged pictures, and have been very open, and honest with each other., i know i have, and i truly believe he has also. what will i do, wear, say etc.???? i was married, for 25 years, my spouse passed away,17 mo. ago, he was married a very long time, and his wife cheated, so we have both had our share of hurt,i really think i am falling in love with him, but i dont want to be hurt, and i would never want to hurt him!!!! PLEASE, no smart remarks, only honest real answers. thanks.
2007-05-25 01:50:51 · 7 answers · asked by hiphiphurray@sbcglobal.net 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess, im more worried I WONT BE what he expects, and i will be a dissapoitment to him, that would crush me!
2007-05-25 02:17:42 · update #1
Don't worry about what he expects, just be yourself. At the same time, don't you have any unrealistic expectations of him either. He's just as nervous to meet you. Good luck
2007-05-25 02:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Glen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Go For IT! You are going to be 2 mature adults meeting. He must be really interesting to you since you are still talking to him online and all! If you dont meet him you might regret this--- Also, Im sure a 67 year olds expectations arn't anything to a 25 year olds! So I wouldn't worry about it so much and just enjoy yourself! You go girl! *woot*
2007-05-25 01:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you go somewhere where theres alot of people or with someone...There are some good people out there I met my husband on yahoo chat 4 1/2 years ago been married almost 3yrs....Good luck have fun ...And if it doesn`t work out it was never meant to be
2007-05-25 02:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to meet him, take someone with you- or meet in a safe- well lighted place...i am serious when i say, you have NO idea how many mass murderers meet their victims this way... you REALLY dont know him-- trust me!
2007-05-25 01:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure you meet him in like an open restraunt or something like that............You neva kno, he might be some 30 year old nut case that is going to try to rape or rob you
2007-05-25 01:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just meet him and see where that takes you
2007-05-25 01:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋