Men: If your girl were 7mnths pregnant and u guys decided to take a break for a little while but you guys were still seeing each other everyday, still saying i love you's, still having sex, still basically a couple, would you consider sleeping with someone else?
Ladies: Let's say you were 7months pregnant. You and your boyfriend have been going out for 4yrs and this is you guys' second child on the way. You guys decided awhile ago that things were getting stress filled, so you decided to take a break. Well, its been awhile later and you guys still are hanging out everyday, telling each other you love each other, still having sex, still basically a couple. Then you find out that he had slept with someone else a couple different times during all of this. What would you do and would you consider that cheating?
2007-05-25 01:43:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes indeed.
2007-05-25 01:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Made You Look 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering that you guys were taking a break, I wouldn't say that he cheated. But if you were on a break, than you shouldn't be having sexual contact with each other. That makes is confusing about what is really going on. Of course he thinks that he did nothing wrong. Really it sounds to me that you two didn't need a break the relationship is stressful because your pregnant. I am sure you two will work it out.
2007-05-25 01:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by jaidabrown2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since it was a break I wouldn't consider it cheating.. But I would still feel kind of betrayed and I wouldn't be able to let that go easily!! Im sorry if thats whats happened to you! lol. U can go out and sleep with someone? Not like they can get you pregnant right??*
2007-05-25 01:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A break to a man is an excuse to be with another chick. I would not ask for a "break" if I wanted to be with someone. I would say I need more time for myself. I still consider it cheating, though, any time you are sleeping with your 7 month pregnant wife/gf, just for health reasons alone you should be exclusive, but even if you were not pregnant if he is sleeping with you regularly he should not be sleeping with anyone else.
2007-05-25 01:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a mixed message here. The right thing to do would be NOT to sleep with someone else while the woman you love is carrying your child. Sounds like you're looking for an excuse to cheat. This is not a very good one. Don't do it.
2007-05-25 01:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you took a break then it is not cheating because when you take a break it means that you are broken up and you can do whatever you want. if this guy is treating you like if you are together and sleeping with other people then it sounds like he is just stringing you along until he finds someone else to be with. i may be wrong because i don't know they guy but if you are preg he should be by yourside and it sounds like he's not ready to settle down yet. just take care of yourself and leave this guy alone and don't make yourself vulnerable because he'll prob just break your heart. Good luck and congrats on the baby.
2007-05-25 01:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by M n M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that is cheating. Afterall you are expecting his 2nd child. You still hang out with each other, still having sex, why does he still sleep around. In fact there is nothing much you can do unless you break off with him. But what about the kids.
2007-05-25 01:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by greentea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
techincally it wasnt cheating because techincally you were on a break, howeva i would still break up with him. But you guys do have children so you have to think about them too. Do you wanna work it out, and does he?? Do whats best for your relationship and your family, but dont settle for someone just because you feel like you should, if he's not worth working it out, then leave beause you'll be happier in the long run if your not satisfied now.
2007-05-25 01:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy's name K-Fed? You have become a friend with benefits. He left his foot in the door for some clean for-sure play when he wants it but wants to play at another park at whim also. My super spider senses say-doubtful he will smarten up by baby number 3. Technically it's not cheating because you agreed to the arrangement and are perpetuating it by participating.
2007-05-25 01:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Just woke up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would never do anything to affect me and my relationships in anyway. I dont want to cheat on my girlfriend even if we decided ot take a break I would just wait until the break was over.
2007-05-25 01:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Nich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still single, but I don't want to happen it to me coz once I married I'll do everything to treasure our relationship.
I'm still radical coz I want to value marriage not only to my husband & to my creator...that's why until now I'm still single coz my right man is not yet come on my way!
Thanks for the nice questions, I considered.
2007-05-25 01:51:58 · answer #11 · answered by Dawnz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋