he always seems to talk about homosexuals and he's the nicest guy i think ive ever met. He treats me like a lady and is the same with me around his friends. He likes shopping and a good dance. But to be fair i have pretty big boobs and he likes them. He's had plenty of girlfriends before.
I like him alot but i'm scared he might be gay. I can't ask him about it because we havent been together long enough. What should I do? Any ideas about how i can find this out?
2007-05-25 01:34:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably just a nice guy. :)
They are so hard to find, you think it is too good to be true, right?
2007-05-25 01:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine B 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Put on some shades so he can't tell what exactly you are looking at then go out with him to some place where there are bound to be attractive guys and being discrete just see if he is checking them out. A mall would work. Or a beach. See if he is checking out the girls in bikinis or the guys. If he is gay he will probably be kind of secretive about checking out guys but you will notice him not checking out the girls.
2007-05-25 08:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm an in the closet married gay man and impossible to catch. Gay guys like gay porn and are very good at lying. Sad story. I don't know if your boyfriend is gay or not, but talking about gays is not usually straight behaviour. You could ask him if he thinks Brad Pitt is cute, in a joking way, and watch and listen to his answer. Sorry, but there are a lot of married gay/bi guys around.
2007-05-25 08:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by sportpack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be Bi ?
and if he has obsessions with men, that is NORMAL. every man has sort of plutonic crushes from time to time ( although most wont admit it)
The point of him liking to shop etc, you are just being awkward. If he showed no interest in the things you like, you would still be upset. Just grow up and start accepting his finer qualities.
I hope you are both happy for a long time to come
x
2007-05-25 08:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a male and we go shopping and dancing and gossip. He is far from gay.
Maybe your boyfriend is just curious and is secure enough in his masculinity to talk about such things, or maybe he isn't sure what he is. I wouldn't press the issue. Just enjoy being with a great guy and forget about it for now.
2007-05-25 08:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 18 I had a boyfriend who turned out gay. He never admitted to it but after I broke it off I was told about it being true. I immediately knew when he avoided kissing me for too long or having sex with me.
2007-05-25 08:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Pam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, wouldn't you rather know NOW than to find out years into your relationship that he prefers penis to p*ssy? It isn't too soon. It is just the right time, Honeybun. You could ask him nicely, just say that you are curious to know, if he is bi-sexual-or if he would prefer a threesome with another girl or another guy.
All the best to you.
2007-05-25 08:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he is a nice guy you think he is gay? Do you guys have sex? Does he like sex? He likes your boobs doesn't he. Yeah ask him if he is gay, but I seriously doubt he is gay. He has many girlfriends before.
2007-05-25 09:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember this saying "nice guys finish last"
just because he is nice, and likes to shop, dosent mean he is gay, give him a chance, and ill bet you he is not just a great person, us nice guys hear that all the time, and well it is not even close to beeing true. i dontthink he is at all, just a great person, which do exist out there....
2007-05-25 08:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've known at least two women who married men who decided, after they were married and fathered children, that they were gay. Also a man who married a woman who then decided she was a lesbian, divorced him and then decided that she was straight after all.
Your mileage may vary.
2007-05-25 08:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the least he's bisexual but who knows.... look for abnormal grooming....lookin at other guys like he does you...acts like a school girl when around other hot guys.
2007-05-25 08:40:11 · answer #11 · answered by wallet_chain83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋