I have a strange fetish i get turned now when a female kicks a guy while wearing a protective cup. I try to get my girlfirend to kick me when i wear my protctive cup but she finds it weird. is it werid? am I gay? I also like seeing women wear protective cups does anyokne know of any websites that show this?
2007-05-25 01:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Steve your normal and not gay due to this liking you have. Most everyone have one fetish if not more. You know what turns you on and attempted to involve your girlfriend, that's great. But she don't like it, or finds it weird. Now you should respect her for not being willing to take part and find the web sight your looking for. Their are others out there with the same fetish, I have seen many people with many obscure fetishes. I think the fetish you have is a small part of a larger fetish you have underlying, I would say look at FemDom sights and see if you have an attraction to that.
I see that you say you are only 14, for girls your age They will find you creepy. But as you get older things will fall in place. I will not give you the web sights you need because of your age but they are out there. Give yourself time, educate yourself, and always be safe at what you do.
2007-05-28 16:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by tc_an_american 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry- I do not know websites with this (I'm dealing with porn addiction, so I stay away from anything like that as much as I can)
I don't think being gay has anything to do with this fetish-
I would like to say that if I were you I would stay away from the word fetish- a fetish is something that a person has when they like one act, thing, or idea more then another human. You would have to like the "kick in the cup" more then your girlfriend to have a fetish (and it sounds like you don't seeing that your still with her even if she thinks your turn on is odd)
I would take some time and talk to her about your feelings, and ask her about her turn on stuff, before looking at a website (ya- sorry- I know it's annoying but because I was addicted to porn, I try to move people away from it- It can honestly destroy your life. It also shows the person your with that you are not fully happy with your relationship with just them- and that can causes a ton of pain. (and it shows that you need to work on your relationship, if you ever want to become perfectly close) Just continue to share your feelings with the girl you love, and if she can't accept your like for the kick in the cup- then you both probably have other issues you need to work out.
2007-05-25 08:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by JenGem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hehe.. Sorry dont mean to laugh. but wow. Um never heard of anything like that. Everybody is intitled to their own ways of being turned on. Your not gay. Unless of course you have an attraction to the men wearing the protective cup. It could just be a different fetish. There are a lot of fetishes out there. Dont worry about it to much.
2007-05-25 08:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by munnkei 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's safe to say that you're not gay, because you like women to get involved. It is a bit weird, right up there with masochism except that you like to be protected. I'd do a YouTube search or similar.
2007-05-28 13:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you make your own video that would be a fun thing to do, then you could watch it anytime you want. You could star in it, maybe your girlfriend would help you. No one has to see it but you. No your not weird, people do all sorts of things that no one knows about, and this is not a sign of being gay. So stop worrying.
2007-05-25 15:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by vickie m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
strange, yes. Maybe you just want to be dominated, cause you're asking your girlfriend to "hurt" you. Hmm, I think only you can explain this one, but I agree that you're not gay unless you're fantasizing about men in cups, and at that point it may just be the cup you are fantasizing about. I'm going to stop thinking about this now, it's starting to hurt my brain, lol.
2007-05-25 08:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by spunion 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry dude, I can't helpyou with that one. But I am sure that there are others with that same kind of fetish, or something similar. As far as your question wether you are gay, you can answer that....Are you sexually attracted to men more than women, based on just your fetish alone, I would say no.
2007-05-25 08:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Weird? Yeah
Gay? hard to tell
Harmless for the most part I guess.
2007-05-25 08:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry cant help you.
2007-05-25 08:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh god no.
2007-05-25 08:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋