Hi, i dont know y i am on here telling everyone my buisness but i really dont know who else to talk to... about 2months ago i had a argument with my bf of 3years only a little one but i told hung up on him and didnt talk to him for 4days not because i didnt want to be with him although i told him that but because i was fed up with the way he was talking to me and just wanted to shock him into treating me abit better but anway i rang him 4days later and told him i just wanted to see how he was and to tell him its over hoping he would treat me better. another 3 days went past and when i next rang him he told me that us breaking up is for the best anyway it was never going to work although he does still love me thats when things got abit crazy and i got really scared he was serious and i started begging for him to stay with me and i did so for about six weeks until i excepted that he really didint want me which was about 2weeks ago and i havent spoke to him since.
2007-05-24 20:20:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but for the past 7weeks my life has been hell i miss him so much i keep thinking if only i didint have that silly argument i would still have him i cry everyday and am on sleeping pills at the moment to stop me dwelling on things to much at night when its the worst. and what things even bad is that i have a mental illness where i cant go out and meet new ppl im stuck indoors on my own pretty much all the time and this person was the only person who understood me and used to come and see me all the time and i thought he really did love me and was going to see me through this at the moment i feel as though i have nothing i was so distraught that i completely missed a period and i just dont know what to do i feel like my life has come to a stop and to be honest i cant think of facing the future without this person.
2007-05-24 20:25:09 · update #1
Well that backfired didn't it?
Not much you can do now except learn a lesson from this and don't play games with your next boyfriend.
It seems to me that if he wasnt treating you very nicely anyway then he was probably trying to push you away, which is exactly what he did do. You hung up on him in the first place because of him being nasty, and he didnt even try to get in contact with you to resolve the issue. Instead you went running back to him and by then it was too late.
2007-05-24 20:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Oh well boys come and go like seasons u could start to concentrate on ur family and friends if u really want a new bf then get on to the net and meet new ppl u would be surprised at how many ppl are goin through the same thing as u.
2007-05-25 03:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Albe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the future: don't say anything you don't mean.
But for now: All you can do is go on with your life. Perhaps this will blow over after you've both had a chance to distance yourself from it (these things usually do). Did you tell him everything you wanted to say to him and HONESTLY?
Don't forget that you broke up with him for a reason... he was treating you badly.... don't make him out to be better than he was simply because he called your bluff.
Go on with your life. Don't beg or lower yourself (you've done that already... let him forget that part). Give him time to relax and just wait and see what happens.
2007-05-25 03:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. first of all you learned something here. Playing games is never a good idea because it can backfire like it has with you.
But I think you did the right thing. From what you say, it sounds like you were not very happy with him anyway.
You broke up for a reason. Try to remember that before you attempt any reconcilliation.
2007-05-25 03:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it if he wont fight for the realationship then he is not worth it me and my girl argue over little stuff to we may say that we are through but we never do leave each other thats true love and if he wont fight for you then leave him. you just think that you still need him once you see you see you are better off with out him you will see that your life is changing around and you will have a better time. you can take and show that you are strong and independent woman and he will try to get back with you and then you can leave him and tell him that your life is better without him.
2007-05-25 03:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change someone. His attitude won't change, he will continue to treat you the same way because he doesn't know any other way. Maybe, if he dates other women and they also dump him because of his attitude, he will change his ways. You need to stop calling him. He may decide to go back with you because you are the only one who will let him treat you like crap.
2007-05-25 03:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireSeaFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u learn lesson from this and next time if u ever find another guy u will not be that clingy and manipulative. u manipulate people if u know how and if u have power. with that one u can do anything anymore. if u keep harassing him he will get a restraining order for u ( i know i would if i were him - u seem quite creepy with your neediness)
2007-05-25 04:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was right it wasn't going to work. He wasn't going to treat you right anyway and he basically admitted that by breaking it off. Go find a new man and get over this one.
2007-05-25 03:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by cobblestonehero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this a situation where its best to move on..........obviously you guys dont meet in the middle at the same time...........meaning you guys seemed like you were ready to make up at different times............and since that happened you both gave up out of frustation.............move on.........who says there cant be more than one true love or compatible match in the whole world................
2007-05-25 03:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away and start a new life.
2007-05-25 03:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋