My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. Our Communication sucks - if any at all. I need for us build some passion and true intimacy but I heard that wont happen until we spill our guts about how we feel. What's the best way to get us going at each other?
2007-05-24 17:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by SugarPie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Arguing is not the best form of communication. You need to let him know that you a missing something in the relationship. Tell him that you don't feel that the two of you talk enough about what is going on between you. Try instead of arguing, to get him to open up and allow you to open up to him. That is the best way to get the lines of communication open.
2007-05-24 18:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best and fastest way to start an arguement is to say "You always..."
But I don't recommend it. Are you sure that an eviseration (forced gut spilling) is the way to approach this.
How about a gentle, "I'd like to feel closer to you but feel that our communication sucks."
2007-05-24 17:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by bookish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start pointing out something he did wrong during his favorite show or during a sports game where his fav. team is playing. That'll surely get him angry.
This is the first question on here that's looking to *start* a fight, not end one. lol.
KUDOS! :D
2007-05-24 17:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur not suppose to argue on purpose!
OMG!
Ur just suppose to tell him how you feel when things come up!
2007-05-24 17:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His ex's...
2007-05-24 17:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋