He'll call me later because he was out with his friends. He'll show up late to my house because he was riding with the guys (he has a crotch rocket). He seems too preoccupied with this friends constantly! It seems like he never thinks about me, just about his stupid friends! He's always doing something with them! I'm more of loner and love to just chill at home! I want to see him over my friends too! He obviously doesn't feel this way! Why am I getting upset? Is this normal?
2007-05-24 17:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by *Stargirl* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is normal for you to feel this way. I'm not sure if it's normal for him to be acting like this because I don't know how old he is. If he's older than 17 he shouldn't be acting like this. But, if he's your bf then he shouldn't be acting like this at all. I suggest you start treating him the same way. Start putting him in situations where he is waiting for you. Make plans to meet him somewhere or plan to go to his house and make him wait for you. Do this often. Or when he finally comes over be on the phone with a friend and don't get off for awhile. Or be on the computer talking to a friend. Me!
Start making and breaking plans with him!
Keep me posted.
2007-05-24 17:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by manybagolike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what constantly means? If he is doing this everyday, then yeah, it's a real problem. Ask him to make more time for you or set some days aside when it will just be him and you. If it just seems constant, but is only a few times a week, it's OK to feel jealous but you have to let him have some room.. try and find a hobby or spend some time with your own friends.
2007-05-24 17:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by G-ma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why we are jealous but it's a natural reaction I guess cause we all do it. But as we get older and the relationship spreads out into years, things won't be so intense, sometimes you'll actually want them to go somewhere for a while to get out of your hair! It's weird!!!!! You love them and want to to come back in a little bit but just go away so you can have some alone time.????????? LIFE IS FUNNY..............
2007-05-24 17:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal for you to feel this way. I have been there. Men and women are completely different. It took me a few years of being with my husband to finally realize that. They express their feelings in different ways. I love to be around my husband and to show him how much I love him. Men arent like that. Read the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". Everything will start to make sense. Trust me.
2007-05-24 17:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by jess_2000_82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that attracts you to him? If you are a loner and he is very social you are going to have to get used to trying to fit in with his friends a little more and he needs to try the at home thing once in awhile otherwise it wont work
2007-05-24 17:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal but try & let go of that jealous feeling. Guys like to hang out, doing stuff, even if they have a girlfriend.
Especially when they are young. Wish you well.
2007-05-24 17:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys hate a jealous girlfriend. Get over it, u cant control him. You need to go out more with your friends. And if he wants to spend more time with his friends than you, then what do you think that tells you!
2007-05-24 17:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Is normal but you need to talk 2 him. To much time with friends and not with u is bad.
2007-05-24 17:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by sarah k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is totally perfect in accordance to me! you may want to fairly like him or love him to sense like that :) in basic terms tell him that you do sense uncomfortable about the concern... he might want to understand if he feels an identical about you as you do for him! Ask him if he might want to be okey with you giving surely one of his acquaintances piano training for 2.5hours at the same time as no man or woman else is there... in basic terms tell him to assert certain or no! the answer might want to make sparkling fairly some issues about how he feels about you.. which might want to fairly have an interest in you to settle on what to do next... if he says certain, which potential he doesnt sense an identical as you for him... if he says no, which potential he DOES sense an identical about you... (meaning he fairly might want to stop the teachings sometime quickly, pondering the reality that he "understood" the way you felt and vice versa ) sturdy success to the both surely one of you! :)
2016-11-27 01:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r still datin. y not go out n hangout with ur friends n njoy life while u still hav it. he is doin dat n y not u? how long hav u been with him? if u still hav doubts ask him if u r the only gal?
or is there someone else. do some research on him.
2007-05-24 17:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by rex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋