I have a problem approaching guy because of this....
- I've always been told girls are not lady like if making first move
- I do not know if he is really a nice and caring person...
- I do not know if he likes me or not
- I do not know if he is taken or not....
- He might get a big head and step over me one day....
- I just never picture myself making first move, I picture him doing it...
But people keep telling me most likely my type of guy will be the shy one and they will not approach... and just stare from afar. It's like I'm on a dead end...
2007-05-24 16:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh okay.... I don't know if I can.... But if I approach, do I still have to ask him out? Gosh why I gotta do everything?! Isn't enough we women have periods and birth the baby and we still have to approach?! Dang, men do nothing!
2007-05-24 17:09:27 · update #1
In this day and age... there is no such thing as "lady like"... I wouldn't worry about that...
If you don't know all of this stuff about this guy, then why are you going to approach him in the first place? It seems to me like he is a complete stranger to you, and you have no idea who he is. Why do you want to talk to a complete stranger?
I would really try to get over this anxiety... it will never really help you in the long run, it really just gets in your way.
2007-05-24 17:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by *Kylie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The handiest factor that I can recommend is so that you can speak to Brad and be entirely sincere along with your emotions and ideas. If he clearly is aware of the way you suppose approximately him and that there might truthfully be a risk that this courting would paintings - then I say opt for it! I believe it might be quite predominant so that you can permit him realize that there's a probability of a reconciliation among your mother and father and him. Have you instructed him approximately how your mother and father are open to having dinner with you and Brad? If now not, I might absolutely accomplish that (instantly). I believe that either one of you have got to appear at the shiny facet (that that is anything confident). I am hoping that when you talk to him that he'll be inclined to provide your courting an extra risk. Once you've gotten laid all your playing cards at the desk...you'll discover out in which you stand (proverbially speakme, the ball can be in his court docket). If for a few rationale he has given up all desire and nonetheless feels that the connection isn't going to move any additional, then no less than you understand that you simply attempted...that you simply gave it your all. If he's inclined to fulfill along with your mother and father and express regret for his shabby habits toward your sister...good then that is GREAT! It might absolutely be a step within the correct path. I want you the first-class of success and I pray that the whole thing works out with you and your boyfriend! : )
2016-09-05 11:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him, you know casual talk get to know him ask if he is dating anyone-find out if he is the type of guy you want-this 2007 and it doesn't matter if you initiate the meeting.
2007-05-24 17:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Joan J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach him say hi and take it from there times have changed if you see someone you like go ahead say hi he might be shy
2007-05-24 17:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Fergie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it possible you can send me a photo of you? i want to know why men have not approached you and tried to get you to go with them. i would realy like to see what you look like. your friend rgsiguana@yahoo.com
2007-05-25 02:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by rgsiguana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋