so i like this guy for like ever since him and my brother have been friends since i guess they were in elementary and im afraid to do anything like tellin him i like him and stuff because what if he dosent feel the same way itd be pretty awkward after that sometimes it seems like i dnt have any chance what so ever but then we'll be talking and hes really nice and idk he jus doesnt seem like anyone else i no and this one time we were talkin on icq and iwas like one thig i dont like about dances is i never dance with anyguys and hes like oo i always go single and just find some ppl to dance with and i was like well easy for you , your hott and he was like you wouldnt have ny problem finding a guy to dance with and idk what to do helpp me plz
2007-05-24 16:38:31 · 5 answers · asked by pink_fish_91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be young again and afraid of little things like talking to someone it's funny now because I'll talk to anyone I don't care.But that comes with age and one day you will be where i am but for now lets see if i can help you with this.First off you need to talk to your brother about him and ask what he thinks
about you two getting together.You need to get your courage
up and just do it ,you can't go on like you are suppose he gets his self a girlfriend and he falls madly in love with her you will be heart broken so you better act fast.When you no he is coming over put on your most sexiest outfit and make sure he sees you walk by and look at him and say hi.He will take it from there.The rest is up to you.He must like what he sees why else would he even talk to you like that.Your brother might be telling him to stay away from you or he might feel funny because you are his best friends sister so that means you are going to work that much harder. If it's meant to be it will happen.
2007-05-24 16:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings for him probably are not going to go away anytime soon, and if you do ask him out or tell him how you feel, I can almost guarantee it will change things. It can change them for better or worse. That's the thing with this whole game. It's a big gamble. You may make your relationship better by doing this, or it could go the other way. You just have to ask yourself if you willing to take that risk, and if you are, I wish you the best of luck.
Just remember, he isn't the only guy out there. You'll have plenty of time to find your "man."
2007-05-24 23:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by badoil_49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In past experience i like most of my brothers friends(they are all about the age of 20 and im 16). i really liked his one friend tho and my brother told him. after a while he admitted he liked me too, lets just say that we got really close after all and now hes engaged to my cuz but he still tells me he likes me a little.
basically it dont hurt to try, if he dont like you play it cool.
2007-05-25 01:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Shawnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid to tell him how u feel. think of the positives and wut would happen if u didnt. dont wait till its to late caus u never know he might be waiting for you to come up to him and say something. if u really think hes that great go for him and dont give up without a fight. if he says no at least he knows how u feel and that u had the courage to tell him about it. ive always been told to only settle for the best girl so dont be shy tell him before its to late. ive had this happen to me one to many times, where the girl liked me but waited till it was to late to tell me.
2007-05-24 23:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by nirvana_4560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you ever stop to take a breath? That's the longest sentence I've seen in a long, long time.
I don't even know what you're asking.
2007-05-24 23:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋