I want to let someone I like know that the guy she's in a fling with doesn't like her back. He doesn't respect her. See, they were play wrestling and he bit her right beneath her neck and it won't go away for a day. There was even another guy with a girlfriend that told her she needs to leave him alone after seeing the bite right on top of her shirt. He is just using/taking advantage of what he can get, and he can get it and he's got it 9 times just from her. She seems to have emotions that go towards both me and him, but more so to him and are just developing towards me. I understand that it's because they used to go out but he cheated, and I've liked two different people before too so I'm trying to be understanding of her and I'm just waiting for my chance to really show her what I can be. At the same time I'm guarded just in case of what can happen. She just can't make up her mind about how she feels about him. All I know is, this is the girl that made me forget about my troubles with another girl I used to like because she treats me 10,000 times better. She is also lessening the amount of attention she pays the other boy. I kind of like her and I know she deserves better, which would be me. Right now we're just friends and she's said in an offhand way that she thinks I don't like her like that ("My FRIENDS THINK you like me.") We have not said anything about how we feel about each other. I think she does and doesn't like me at the same time. She tells me she likes the guy but she is also quick to remind me either to ignore him when he tells me they're dating, or that they're not going out. I know some of these things because when we talk, either at school or on the phone, she's very open with me.
2007-05-24 16:27:09 · 9 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been on a date, she's a freshman and her older sister hooked us up for me to take her to the prom. We had a great time and she only danced with me, and very closely.
2007-05-24 16:27:21 · update #1
I mean, she's nothing but a trophy to him, along with his two actual girlfriends.
2007-05-24 16:27:46 · update #2
While I was typing this question, I sent her a message over myspace explaining why I can't call her tonight. At the time her display name said "Money Over Stupid Boys" and her headline said "My Money come first then stupid boys". The message said
"I've got a lot of homework that I stupidly waited until tonight to do and it's due tomorrow, so I gotta get done what I can. I just wanted to say hey quickly because I may not have time to call you. if you want to talk for a few minutes I won't ignore you if you call."
After I sent the message, she changed her display name to "I'M DOING ME" and her headline to "BOYS ARE STUPID WELL SOME ARE I STILL THROW ROCKS AT THEM." She hasn't called me, but I think it's a start, seeing that she changed her mind and decided to say only SOME boys are stupid afer I sent the message.
2007-05-24 16:30:32 · update #3
I don't know for sure just yet, but I think she's sick of the the other boy now and is hopefully thinking of getting with me
2007-05-25 23:44:06 · update #4
Wow.
It sounds like she's trying to hear it straight from you that you care about her. IF she is going back to this guy, then she has strong feelings for him, AND she probably likes passion.
So If I were you, I'd get her alone and tell her how you feel in the sweetest and most exciting way you can. This way, you are safe and comforting, but also fun and exciting. She won't need this other guy any more.She sounds like shes looking for an out, but also that she really likes you. I wish you good luck in wahtever you do, but remember, people are creatures of habit and she may not be able to stay away from him yet. Take it slow.
2007-05-24 16:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by phooey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 11:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by lukman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Icebox, you need to chill and quit trying to control who this gal dates. I realize you have a special fondness for her, but the bottom line is, she apparently prefers a "player" to a nice, sensitive, caring guy, like you seem to be. Find a gal that likes you for you and really appreciates what you have to offer. I'll bet if you do, this other gal will all of a sudden begin to notice you in a different light. And, that will present a different problem and a different question for you to post on Yahoo. Good luck man.
2007-05-24 16:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should get to know her and become friends. flirting ever so slightly but NOT obvious. then once you know her and you can show her what a gentleman u are hopefully she has some what fallen for you. let her no how you feel in a while and then you can decide whether you want to ask her out or not. if you do then just be all... yeah well i think that he treats you like dirt and i can be so much better... bla bla bla and then prove it to her. good luck!
2007-05-24 16:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to one of her friends about the bad boyfriend situation. If you told her yourself she would just think you are playing the devil's advocate. Unfortunately, this is probably one of those things that she will have to learn the hard way. The good thing is that she'll probably figure things out and move on quickly.
2007-05-24 16:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I almost forgot what the question was. Any way, just tell her how you feel before you get stuck in the "friend zone". Life is too short. Seize The Day!! Get your girl!
2007-05-24 16:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by muzic_gal2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes being treated like junk or it wouldnt be happening. lots of girls like jerks until they get let down too many times, then they look for guys like you. dont ask me why but its been happening since the caveman days.
alpha male syndrome, perhaps.
2007-05-24 16:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her as a friend and show her proof, solid proof that he does not care about her...in the end she will ventually realize who the better person is.
I hope she gets the right person...which would be you :)
2007-05-24 16:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by cakecrush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write it in a blog or a book.
2007-05-24 16:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋