I like this guy james that i work with and he broke up with his girlfriend of three years to see if he really loved her and he said he doesnt think he does. but we mad out and went swimming. and the other day he came up to me and said i dont regret anything we did and this is nothing against you but i feel like were getting into a realtionship and he says i thinks its better if we dont do anything physical but the thing is i think he has feelings for me.
2007-05-24 16:26:57 · 12 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because he wants more than the physical part of the relationship...
2007-05-24 16:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is just out of a long term relationship, don't push.
He very wisely does not want to get involved in a rebound relationship. Those seldom turn out well.
If you are really interested in this guy, and want a relationship rather than a quick roll in the sack, TAKE YOUR TIME, and let him make up his mind. If you rush him into bed, you will not be able to keep him.
I speak from experience, on both sides of the equation.
Doc Hudson
2007-05-24 23:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. You don't want someone who is "rebounding" from a long term relationship. At least he did enjoy being w/you & the time spent w/you. Good for him in not wanting to get into anything physical at the moment. Give him plenty of time to sort out his feelings & time to get over the "ex". You don't want to get hurt by falling too hard for him & then find it to be a mistake. I just say easy does it for now & take it as it comes. You'll know in time if it was meant to be.
You don't want to rush things then regret them later.
2007-05-24 23:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does have feelings for you, but is wanting to "play the field" for a bit. If he was with someone that long, he's probably enjoying being single again & thats why he wants to back away from you. I would suggest giving him his space....if you like him then I would continue flirting with him, but don't pursue him. Then when he is ready he will know you're still into him and can take that extra step to be with you.
2007-05-24 23:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect his wishes.
You might get to kiss him after a while.
But usually a guy that says that is thinking about the future of the relationship and thinks that there might really be something more in store and wants to save it.
2007-05-24 23:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand that he just came out of a relationship..it doesnt take anything from you being a nice person or pretty...maybe he just wants the physical thing with somebody aka rebound...if youre looking for more than that; maybe you shouldnt be hanging out with him anymore...good luck !
2007-05-24 23:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Eyelovme2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probably gun shy. if he just broke up with a girl after 3 years most likely he doesn't want to jump into a new one. He wants to play the field.
2007-05-24 23:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by snshnbtrflis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just scared of committment. He might need a break from a relationship.
2007-05-24 23:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT EVER....................mess with someone you work with unless you can deal with the Drama!
2007-05-24 23:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by luvsfashion 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes sure he dus..good luck
2007-05-24 23:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋