My x-bf keeps coming into my life then leaving with out an explaination. I asked him did he regret the fact that we broke up and he said yes, but he keeps lingering.Its like he cant make up his mind about what he wants. Im not sure if he has a girl but i suspect he should by now. I still love him and I know he loves me. Well i felt that way up until he couldnt tell me he loved me back. My x is really stuborn and i know he wont admit he's wrong but im tired of rescuing him, i need him to resque me for a change. Someone help me.
2007-05-24 15:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by Britt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TALK TO HIM. tell him how you feel. put it all out there. stop walking around with questions. the sooner you get your questions answered, the faster you can either move towards something or move on. youll never know, if you just think about it. make things happen or move ON.
2007-05-24 15:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long were youns together/ and how strong are your feelings for one another still? What broke youns up? Theres alot of questions you need to ask yourself and answer before you can look into your own heart and find the answer to this question. I believe in one phrase and have lived by it- LOVE CONQUERS ALL! If you still love him and he still loves you it will win over- If he loves you enough it will over ride his stubborness too. Give it a little more time and try and get more feelings out of him try and get him to talk more communication is very important, his answers to your questions will help you answer your own questions.
2007-05-24 22:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do isn't to ask random strangers on the internet, I think you should talk to him. Tell him what you think, and tell him that you will move on if you feel he isn't interested in the relationship anymore.
You can't come up with a good decision without consulting him first. I think he should have a say in things too. He IS half the people in this relationship...
2007-05-24 22:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for a sorry-a55 like him to rescue you...you need to rescue yourself girl. pack up and move on and don't you dare look back. Its going to hurt and its going to be hard to handle but its the best thing for you otherwise hes gona keep on using you. if his ego is more important than his feeling for you then he has already made the decision for you...
Love isn't proud or selfish.
2007-05-24 22:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say dont go back to him.
move on and try to find someone else to make you happy. i went back to a bf after being broken up for a couple months and he didnt change a bit. i think we just feel lonely and feel as if our ex is the only one we have. we just have to go on a man hunt. :)
2007-05-24 22:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves u he will boss up and "rescue you".. he needs to figure out what he wants .. its obvious your wanting someone reliable and consistent .. if he cant accept that and meet the standard .. its best you move on i know it will be hard .. but im hoping he will come to his senses
2007-05-24 22:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Trey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He realised he can't get anything better, but he's too proud to ask you to take him back. He is trying to hang around enough to get you to ask first...that way he can save face. Sounds pretty controlling too.
2007-05-24 22:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. If you are tired of it tell him to stop coming around. "Walk Away"
2007-05-24 22:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by lipsofanangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You allow you x to use you as a doormat. Stop it and someone to respect u. YES it IS OVER.
2007-05-24 22:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Brookyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break from him. stay away from him for a little bit. no calls and so on. he will wake up
2007-05-24 22:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋