Me and my boyfriend have a pretty open relationship where we tell each other everything. Well we told each other that we knew that even in marriage people are attracted to others so it was ok for us to talk about it. However it's getting ot the point were he is constantly like "omg she is soo hot...but i bet i could sleep with her" or the other night at his poker night one of the guy's little sister showed up unexpected and had a really low cut shirt on. Well when my boyfriend got home he was like "yea she flopped her tit out in front of me....if we weren't together then i'd probably try to hook up with her...even tho she is a little young" is this too open becuase i'm unconfortable with it. I don't feel that way about other guys. Yes i may see some hot guy and be attracted to him but i never think about being with him instead. How should i go about telling him about this....when i do try to talk about it he gets mad and says that he just won't tell me anything any more...Help!
2007-05-24 15:20:39 · 23 answers · asked by Leila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him read what you just wrote. You summed it up really well. He might as well know how you truly feel. He shouldn't be looking at other women that way when he is with you. That is total disrespect to you.
2007-05-24 15:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an open and honest relationship can be a good thing, as long as you are both happy. you could always start messing with his head and make bets that the other girls he looks at would sleep with you before him. another option is to start telling him about all the hot guys you see and how much you get hit on, but that can cause problems on it's own so be careful
2007-05-24 15:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by dragonknight120 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to make you jealous. Some guys don't know when to shut their yaps. He's disrespecting you.
Sure.. every guy probably thinks this way but he doesn't have to rub it in your face.
turn the tables on him and give him a taste of what it feels like.
This is not an "open" relationship is something entirely different.
2007-05-24 15:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeous george III 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a little weird for me I would not want to hear about my girl friend wanting to be with other guys. If it makes you uncomfortable then you need to address it with him. He might over react at first because people don't always handle change well, give it a little time for the dust to settle but if he still isn't respectful to you then I would question the validity of the relationship.
2007-05-24 15:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rational Humanist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I feel like he doesn't have the same feeling for you that you have for him. And yes it can be very uncomfortable and almost disrespectful when hes just spitting out everything that crosses his mind without processing it and making sure its okay to think or feel or say what hes saying. if he can't respect you being honest that you don't like certain things he does or says then maybe hes not the one you should waste time with. Some people never change...I can't judge him for you like that but you need to decide if u want to wait for him to change or if you want to move on. good luck.if i were you I wouldn't let him disrespect me or other women like that.
2007-05-24 15:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily, long distant relationships are on the factor of impossible. Even married couples have issues of this occasion. whether, in case you want the courting, you the two might desire to think of approximately one yet another's thoughts. Any courting will artwork in case you're prepared to place up with a lot.
2016-11-05 07:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stay with this guy, he has no thoughts as to your feelings. Seems he has no devotion to you, probably holding on to you for similar reasons and seems as though he needs to grow up a little.
Sorry, but I hope it helps you out in the long run.
2007-05-24 15:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Robert S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him that i think our relationship is a little to open. But make sure you say that you like it open but not to the point where hes saying that he would hook up with other girls.
2007-05-24 15:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let him get mad. And tell him there are things he can keep to himself. And if that doesn't work - mirror his actions: "Mmm those construction workers look so good - I bet that tall, tan one has a big..."
2007-05-24 15:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah you're obviously not happy with him making his comments in front of you so you should let him know and keep it exclusive and besides there are too many STI's going around for yall to be sleeping around
2007-05-24 15:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Im BETTER than that 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋