Ladies, would u ever use a guy JUST for sex?
This girl i know told me she has a boyfriend but still wants to "see" me on the weekends. We've had sex before but she never calls unless its to come over and watch a movie at her house (sex). so would u ever only use a guy just for sex?
I'm 19... state your age too
2007-05-24 15:16:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of people have booty calls.
if men can have them why dont women???
i have had men before that i wouldnt want as my bf but would want to have sex with them.
2007-05-24 16:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definalty would use a man for sex, among other things. LOL You men need to under stand that women can do what men have been doing for years. Now I want to be in a committed relationship and usually if I have sex with a guy it does turn into something everytime, so what gives. So there is your answer. As for your situation I'm not sure if you are being used for just sex alone. Ask yourself do you buy her gifts and do you spend a lot of money on her. Have you talked to her about the way you feel? I have seen some women that are just up to plain no good and those women might need to be left alone. Now she might be unsure if she should rush you or she may have been hurt herself some. So maybe she is reserved. Get to the root of what's is going on and fix it. You Can! Good Luck to you and God Bless you also.
2007-05-24 15:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by SecretUser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girls love to have fun also lol some girls do not wanna be in a deep relationship and only wants sex, and some stay with men because they only like sex. It is actually pretty normal i would say. But i believe it isnt good to be with someone just for the sex, just have sex and no relationship. When ur in a relationship just for sex there will be sooo much drama when u break up because the other person will be hurt. Have friends with benifits
2016-05-17 07:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a 40 year old women I met on a dating website that would never talk to me unless I wanted internet sex. I almost was going to meet her in real life and she gave me her address and appartment number. I mapquested her. But at the last minute I decided not too, I wanted more than a GF who only wanted sex from me. I wanted a relationship. I know that sounds odd for a guy to say that, but that is how I felt.
2007-05-24 15:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of. There are a few guy in my life who I hook up with on a fairly regular basis. They're friends, but sex is a part of it and I'm not sure we'd bother if one of us decided we didn't want that part. That said, I don't currently have a traditional boyfriend. That part of it's a bit weird. In the end you need to ask yourself if you're OK with the arrangement. That's the best test.
I'm thirty something, but no one ever believes me. I've always had chubby cheeks and I've never acted my age so there you have it...
2007-05-24 15:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, i've done that before. I'm 21 and i've had guy friends that i just have sex with. We almost never hung out where it didn't lead to having sex.
I never wanted to date him and never wanted it to get serious but he was a good lay. So we kept it up for a long time. Eventually it ended bc we both got into relationships.
But for a while it was awesome... all the perks of a relationship with none of the downfalls. Got sex whenever i wanted it and never had to worry about the jealously and craziness of having a relationship with him.
2007-05-24 15:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a 32 and YES I have done it before. Women do it all the time. Guys are the only ones who use women for sex
2007-05-24 15:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Brookyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, b/c sex to me is a big deal, the more promiscuous relationships people have with each other just makes it harder to differentiate between whether it's just physical attraction or real love...in your case she wants a F*&^ buddy and that is sad, b/c her b/f probably doesn't know about it. I'm 28
2007-05-24 15:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by eyeballsgr8t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have never, and will never use a guy for sex. Anybody that would do that is a ho. You should cut this girl off of your social list, because she's putting you in a situation that could make her boyfriend commit a crime of passion. Don't be a welcome mat for an extreme a** whuppin. I'm 29yr.
2007-05-24 15:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by watersign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 and it depends on the girl I guess. I am sure some do but most likley they are just lonley and need a warm body
2007-05-24 15:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by staciaschool2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋