I'm 14 years old, and i've never kissed a girl, or been with one.
I feel so pathetic ...really.. I've asked out girls, and I've gotten asked out before.. but that doesn't really seem good enough... and I see there's a lot of pressure to find a girlfriend, but I just can't! I've asked out.. er... 2, hah, but they said no. So what does it take? SHould I be there friend or an outside person? What should I do? And IF i do get a girlfriend I don't want to be all romantic publically, and hug her every class period and hold hands and walk slowly .. uh.. i hate that (publically) is that a bad thing to hate?
So.. um.. yeah, help!
2007-05-24 15:02:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I have to say, some people have had relationships in 6th grade, I'm now in 8th, and everyone has someone now.. and people sometimes make fun of me, yeah yea.. sob sob.. but I just can't stand thinking that theres something wrong with me. Plus I have like a **** of a friend (whos a girl... who I actually used to like) and shes always with someone.. it makes it harder for me .. urgggg. :)
2007-05-24 15:10:55 · update #1
that starred word was 'slutt'.
2007-05-24 15:11:49 · update #2
....Um....
Don't force yourself to conform to anyone else's standards. If you're happy with who you are, and don't NEED a girl right now, don't bother. Girls can practically smell desperation a mile away. And don't feel bad about not kissing or whatever...first kiss for me was a few weeks ago (and I'm a few weeks from being 16). So you'll be a late bloomer - sometimes that's sexy.
2007-05-24 15:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a bad thing. You don't have to rush finding one, either. Sooner or later you'll find the one for you. Someone who'll understand and see right through you. The past rejections only meant that there is someone better to come. Besides finding a girlfriend out of pressure won't make you feel rewarding, so as the girl is she knew.
2007-05-24 22:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by tetet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14! don't worry about it for a few more years.
Look, if you're 30 and you've never kissed a girl then you can start to worry. I must have asked out a hundred women before I got a yes, so don't panic, rejections are a normal part of the process.
2007-05-24 22:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything your not comfortable with doing. don't presure yourself into dong anyhitng you don't want. and its notwrong to hate publicity if your not comfortable with showing everyone what you guys do privatley she should understand that.
2007-05-24 22:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋